First off: we met in person very briefly a month ago.I was at a beer tent a month ago and she was with her bf at the time(guy I went to high school with). So I just addedher a few days ago, she accepted and is commenting on my status's.Here's how thhe convo went so far....

Me:hey, how ya doing?
Her:hi!, good u
Me:great like tony the tiger...at work.
Her:lol
Me:whatcha up to this weekend? I want to see you
Her:I'm sorry I'm really bussy this week. moving, have family in from outa town and going to a friends cabin.
Me:(cut it short, and I get her digits)
Her: *gives me number*
Me: ok I shoot u a text and will figure it out, ttyl
Her: ttyl.

Now.......do I really text her next week like planned? When we first met she locked eyes and asked how I knew her....clearly wanted to kno me even in front of her bf as I was passing threw

nope she has a boyfriend and flaked, freeze out, try again, she flakes, freeze out again

It says single on her profile and I saw it change on fb a little over a week ago tho

Facebook = not a reliable source for relationship status.

Anyway, try to get that info from someone close to her - don't make it directly, though.

Girls sometimes are in really shitty relationships, even though they just won't admit it. Keep her interested and make your move in the right moment.

Good luck

My opinion on this is: I would not close her again. From what you said, it looks like there is attraction but you need to build more comfort.

Also, waiting to text for a week is not good! If a women really, really is into you she'll text you 24/7 telling ya about little stupid things going on in her day. Also, when she starts sending you random pics of herself, that's a huge ioi.

If you close her again, and she rejects it, it's more than likely gonna be game over. Wait till you start get more ioi's from her.


Her changing Facebook status could be an ioi, I've had this happen. Or it could mean she's getting sick of her bf. A women that has a guy that she's into, will let the whole worked know, usually..


Good luck!