hey guys,

I met a girl a couple of weeks ago and the last 2 times I was at the girl's place, she would give me LMR like "I'm tired, I feel rushed" or "You should go", "you're a player,a mess, I bet all the other girls fall for you cuz your a smooth guy".

We were laying next to each other on her couch, I would run my finger along her arm, she'd tell me that I should go, I agreed with her and touched her again, then she repeated that I should get going cuz she had to rest before going out. She went to the bathroom, I sat at the kitchen table to read a magasine, waiting for her to come at me. She came close to me, gave me a hug and kissed me on the cheek telling me that there are 1000 guys like me and 1000 girls like her, that this was the nice girl telling to leave. Walking away, she was grabbing my ass so I told her not to touch me, she wanted to hug just before I left but I didn't.

That was last Friday afternoon and she's going back home on Sunday. I'm wondering if I should just let it go and see if she calls me before leaving or if I should reinitiate the conversation. She's the kind of girl who's always looking for sensations, having many people enter and leave her world... The girl's a stripper, looks like she wants it all the time but it turns out that she's quite a challenge
to turn on!! I'm really wondering what to do with her.

You did great to be honest with you, you could have tried once more when she grabbed your ass but it's not a mistake telling her not to touch you. Overall good game I suggest you give her a chance to contact you, if not then you can try once more with a sexual message.

Hey bro,
I used to have a problem like this as well. I could get to a girls place and everything would seem like it was on, but when it came to closing I would be met with some LMR. The key thing here is to not address the LMR directly. If she insists that it is too soon, respond with "Ok, I respect that" and then stop all of your kino, advances, etc (in other words, use a freeze out). Her grabbing your ass to me seems like she is shit testing you and she is trying to see if you would jump on that chance. You acted perfectly when you told her not to touch you, etc.

As for what to do next, I would suggest several things. First is obviously to freeze her out: Simple. The second thing I would suggest is to create a jealously plot line (if you haven't already). Let her think that you are moving on to greener pastures (or actually move on and see how she reacts) and this will (if she is interested) hopefully trigger her to act on her emotions which will cause her to fall right into your arms. There are many ways to do this and you can find methods online or elsewhere. I personally like doing the mistaken text (text her something sexual, or something that is clearly meant for someone who is interested in you, then respond with "Sorry, wrong person." The final thing I would suggest is to move the fuck on. If this broad is seriously shit testing you this much, or stringing you along, you should cut ties.

Hope this helps

No. You don't stop kino when she shit tests you. Yes that's right the telling you not to go that far is the shit test and not she grabbing your ass that's rather her giving up and ending up to want it too. You "You're right we probably shouldn't be doing this" but you go through with it until she tells you again.

Good input, maybe stopping kino all together is a bad idea but in my experiences I have had a lot more success with a hard freeze out than a soft one. From what I have seen and experienced, when a girl asks for you to stop and puts up LMR it is not a shit test but rather she is not, at that time, ready to escalate.

I still think, after re-reading your original post, that stopping kino and doing a hard freeze out is your best option because it seems like she was sending IODs by asking you to leave more than once. It's like Mystery says, the more time a girl has to logically think of reasons why you should not be with her (or the more times she says you should not be there), the more she is going to defend that position. You can't change a girls mind, but you can change her emotional state. Freeze out, change her emotional state so that she is more interested, then re-initiate your game.

alllright thx for the comments. so I txted her yesterday evening with a sexual invitation but no answer...I txt again 2night at 2 am being more descriptive about what I would to her, as I knew she was out and she's leaving the city on Sunday so I thought there's nothing to lose.. she responded at 4:30 saying "you're totally nuts this will never happen keep dreaming..."
she didn't ignore that msg, so how do I respond to that now?