Alright---Ill try to keep this concise. Met up with this girl, had a lot of fun on the first date, obviously didn't close but, got a lot of IOI. I think (for the most part) I ran solid game. Texted her afterward and got a response nearly right away.

We setup another date, however, I noticed she NEVER initiates contact, I do. She responds pretty quick....and even gets playful sometimes...but never initiates ...Which is kind of odd, so I've backed off (I've been busy) for a couple days, still nothing....wtf? We're talking like maybe 3 days...date is on Sunday and honestly if I don't hear anything by Friday night, I am just going to cancel the date (not burn a bridge) and go out with someone else.

Should I text finally or wait? I am only chasing but for so far...however, this is an odd behavioral pattern...any motives or insights?....about her: Alpha female, very quick witted, intelligent, very attractive, very successful, and VERY independent.

Thanks guys

she's playing hard to get because she likes you... girls game too. So don't overthink it... yeah definitely contact her again (i'd call her if your comfy with it) you said that with your post "alpha female" She's gaming you dude, your getting mad at her lol,
don't be clingy though... giving her a day off now and then is still a really good idea.

edit: DEFINITELY do not cancel the date... O_o if a girl wants to spend 1v1 time with you she likes you, that's ALL that matters.

Funny enough I'm in the same situation Players getting played. I'm not gonna lie here, I do care about this girl and she's making me think about her by not answering. Yesterday I sent my last text after everything went great and up until now no response. Makes it one day in total. Let's wait and see where this goes.

If she decides not to answer at all I'm using the divorce line. " NAME , you never text/call the kids are worried sick! If you keep this up we'll have to divorce. You get the kids, I keep the dog. "

I actually used this last night but tweeked it.

I want a divorce. I havn't been entertained in 2 or 3 days! You keep the kids, I get the dog.



Got a response in less then a minute.....flirted right back.

Good to see it worked for you ! I'm still giving her time to respond I'm giving her 3 days to realize she misses me

[quote="GameIsOn"]Funny enough I'm in the same situation Players getting played. I'm not gonna lie here, I do care about this girl and she's making me think about her by not answering. Yesterday I sent my last text after everything went great and up until now no response. Makes it one day in total. Let's wait and see where this goes.

If she decides not to answer at all I'm using the divorce line. " NAME , you never text/call the kids are worried sick! If you keep this up we'll have to divorce. You get the kids, I keep the dog. "[/quote]

I think this line is risky, it'll make her feel really good if she really likes you... but if she's semi-interested or has established more power in the relationship then this will sound super clingy.

Which is why I tweeked mine. "I want a divorce. I havn't been entertained in 2 or 3 days! You keep the kids, I get the dog. "

Although I do believe believe that she's into me, I get your point. I'll just tweak it a bit and see where it leads me. But hey she still has 2 days to answer to let's not stress and hope she actually answers before I need to pull this line.

when a girl doesnt text me back, I give her 2-3 days space then text her again, then I make sure i'm the first to stop texting back then give her another 2 days and then call her.