Right now I'm searching facebook for this girl I met tonight. She wrote her name all pretty on a piece of paper that's sitting in-front of me.

My game was solid, not 100% but maybe 90%. We had a great laugh/chat and she was really into it for about 10 minutes. I asked for her number and she's like I can do facebook, add me on there first.

Her first name's Steph. Well that narrows it down to 1 billion people, what's next?

It's so common today for people to offer facebook rather than a number. I never have a good reason to say 'NO I WANT YOUR NUMBER!'

Any good routines, ideas, stories to help me with this?

Unfortunately it's not the first time I've spent an hour searching facebook for a girl I met, shit result. I would have added her at the time, but my phone was at home (Doh!)

I don't do the whole fb thing...I have n use fb, but if a girl offers that n no number I just laugh n excuse myself. If she was that into u she would've given u her number. Also, its about pussy not numbers...what I mean by that is try to pull the girl from wherever to ur place. If that doesn't work, then take her number. Taking a number should be the last resort if u can't smash that night. I def wouldn't sit around n search fb for her...that's weird n its probably not gonna work anyway because if she was really into u, u would get digits.

She was working at a cafe, with her workmate. I was on my way to a movie, wasn't gonna be smashing anything! LOL
Maybe, but since she was working I think she may have been trying to keep it cool.

Solution: " AH no! I don't use facebook, so/but you can give me your number "

Guess the strong frame and willingness to walk will solve that problem. If I had my phone on me I wouldn't have asked, just opened the number screen and said let's hang out, or some awesome PUA jedi mind shit that came into my head at the time
: )

Lol, after having 2 girls in a week say "Ill give you my facebook" and having nothing from that, I had a girl say shell give me her facebook and I just said "I dont have one, put ur number in here" and she did and we're texting now.

However, I got a girl's opinion on the whole giving a facebook thing, and she said that its not a blow off, but more of a "hes still a stranger i dont want him texting my phone all the time". so fb is not a blowoff, you just didnt make enough of an impression to break down her barriers and build that rapport. try to build that up through messages and the 2nd date.

If a girl suggests facebook it means they won't give me their number later. I hit them with "Oh... yeah I don't really give it out. You seem like the type that would stalk the hell out of me"

Let them laugh for a second at that, then go "Give me your number though! That way I can block you if you get too annoying"