Hey guys, halfway through The Game... and I've gotta say, it's opened my eyes. I'm 21 and so far I've been your AFC/Chode. It's not that I'm bad looking or totally oblivious, but I'm your typical "Nice Guy". I'm drawing the line bitch!

Basically I've been cramming as much info in my head as I can, scrawling notes on the back of old receipts and practicing my game when I can. I'm thrilled at the results I've already seen.

My #1 sticking point is my lack of vocal projection... for a long time I've talked way too fast and not enunciated nearly enough. After watching bits of the jeffy show I agree that that's hugely important. #2 sticking point would be my tenancy to seek approval and generally not be the Alpha that I need to be.


Here's a little question (and background) for you guys:

I'm really into the this girl... (classic eh?) I can see myself with her forever, being around her makes me happier than anything. The goal is definitely a long term romantic relationship. My understanding though is that the Game can still and should be used.

We have amazing rapport (I can really make her laugh!) and she often makes prolonged eye contact, great physical connection (goddamn I wanna make her cum) to the point of me biting her upper legs playfully and her lying on top of me and sitting in my lap. I want her more than I've ever wanted anyone.

The catch is that she has a boyfriend... and it's not me! wtf?

Recently we had a good time at the amusement park together with a mutual friend. I kinoed the shit outta her, and mostly got the same in return then I ignored her and gave attention the friend, then negged the target. She has crazy confindence and that's something that I find really attractive about her = lots of negging

Throughout the day I counted 3 occasions where she compared me to or mentioned her boyfriend. for example she felt of my hair and asked if I used conditioner... then she said that her BF's was softer! another time the friend asked if I could touch my toes and I tried but couldn't... the target said her BF could.

What is the proper response to these remarks? (I just ignored them)

I take the fact that she's making comparisons an IOI.


One mistake I regret making was allowing her to pay for a her meal! Originally I said I would pay, but she put a $10 bill on the table anyway and I let it slide. I'm assuming this was a shit test... to see if I would stick to my guns... >.< quite newbish...


Another mistake I make is giving her things too easily... I need to learn to make her work for my attention. :/ I have a great gift for her birthday... and I know she'll absolutely love it but what can I do to make her work for it? I don't want to ask anything that seems too forced or random.

The game is really best for meeting and connecting sexually with new women. It's not as much about building/maintaining/nourishing LTR's. In my opinion. Although some things certainly help.
If you are not sleeping with her yet, it sounds like you will be soon.
This is actually not that strange. My buddy has oneitis for his gf that just got married (but not to him) and he's still with her. Women like the idea of MLTR's as much as some men. If you really want to be with her, you have to find out what her motive is. She may be enjoying the excitement of keeping her bf while also spending time with you. If that is the case it is the ultimate good deal for her, and it would be a downer for her to have to choose just one man. I don't know if it applies to you, but if so, you would have to come to terms with it. If it does apply, then at least learning game will let you find additional LTR's to keep you content while she is occupied by her bf.

Well, so far I've gathered that the Game is used to build attraction, and that's precisely what I want with this girl. I want her to be so attracted to me that she doesn't even consider other guys.

Any opinions on the questions I posed?

Look up some boyfriend smashing techniques, they could really help you out.