Hey guys! How are y'all doing?

I will try to keep this post short because I know a lot of you guys, including myself, don't like reading extremely long posts.

So I went out 2 days ago and met this cute girl HB8. She opened me and we really hit it off quite well, we did some dirty dancing and she really showed a lot of IOI's. She couldn't keep her hands off me, she wanted to stay with me for the most of the time, she #closed me and put her name as "text me tomorrow" in my phone, basically all the good stuff. So obviously I k-closed her and we made out a few times. When she had to leave she kissed me a couple of times and made sure that I would text her the other day by repeating it a couple of times when she was leaving.

I texted her the other day with just the normal PUA stuff. Yesterday I just texted like 2 times to let her know I'm still there and today I called her. Now this is where the shit happened. I chatted for a while and she said she wanted to see me again and asked if I was going out tonight so I said most likely I'm going out and she asked where etc. But she has to work late and said that she won't be able to see me unless her boss lets her quit earlier. I replied "You know what, I'll take you out for lunch tomorrow to this really good italian place." She sounded excited but said that she is going on vacation tomorrow. I thought "M*thafucker!" but of course I brushed it off saying "That's awesome where are you going .. etc" & said that she should let me know when she's back.

Now what do I do here. Do I just wait for her to text/call me. Do I call/text when she gets back? Do I keep the contact while she's on holidays?

Let me know guys, thanks!

Do you know how long she's gone?

She seems very very interested. Assuming she's gone for about a week, I would hit her with 1 text two days into it, saying you thought of her because of [inside joke here] and end the conversation very quickly after that. If she texts you again that week (I would expect her to) have a medium length conversation then end it. I'd say that's all you need; what to do after she's back will work itself out.

Thank you for the accurate response. Indeed she does seem very interested but she is definitely aware of the game. Like she rarely initiates contact, doesn't show direct interest. I'm login it! But I'm also hoping I could seal the deal when she gets back. I want this girl to be mine. Just have to control myself by going out and seeing other women so I'll be fine.

2 week freeze out, attempt contact, no contact established or another flake, 2 week freeze out, rinse repeat until you either get a meet, or she tells you to remove her # from your phone

When she returns tell here something like "I bet my week was much more interesting than yours" (who doesn't think their time is the most interesting:)).
And if you ever again get in a situation where a girl tells you that she can't get out with you because she has to work late tell her "Well quit your job. I am far more interesting " It is cocky and it is funny and girls love it

Lol definitely not going to do that. She didn't flake and she's mad interested. I'm gonna ping her when a few days pass to keep me fresh in her mind and set up a day 2 when she gets back. FYI yesterday she texted me after work if we could meet up but I was already occupied.

I don't think you read my post at all.

I am currently in the same boat. Lots of IOI's when we go out, but, I have to be the one to make contact.

At this point I just don't give a shit anymore. I only chase (if at all) for so long, at some point she has to chase. I think the freeze out is the best option. Thats the problem with girls that have Alpha tendencies...they act like we do!

I honestly can't think of anything else to do....if anyone has pointers, throw them my way.

Luckily for you I just ran near to perfect text game yesterday. I ignored most of the advice from above and texted her the night before she was leaving (she was leaving in the morning). At that point I had just read this book on text/phone game so I found enough confidence to text her again without leaving her blank for a few days. Here's how it went.

" Hey sexy, how was your day? GameIsOn "
Notice how I keep the message short here on purpose and how I explicitly ask a question in order to be sure that I get a response.

- She answers about how her day was and asks me about mine.
This is defined in the book as a short fuse, basically means that her answers are long and she returns the interest. Instead of just saying "Good".

" You didn't cause too much trouble again now did you? I went downtown with a friend (my language has the female version of friend just to clearify) and now I just got back from my 5 mile run! "
Maybe it's important to say that this really happened and I didn't make anything up as I know some people like to make things up when texting/calling.

Anyways the convo goes on and I basically end with a C&F line and saying How long do you need to miss me?

- Haha you dork! Not too long only until the 31st of june. I'm only going for 5 days since I had to work followed by an x at the end of her text. This wouldn't really matter to anyone but it's already good progress since this is the first time she sends an x.

" You'll be able to survive 5 days. Anyways i'm going to bed right now or they'll kill me at practice tomorrow. Have fun and be safe! "
This is also applying what I read and it's basically that you end the convo on a high note.

" Okaaay ! Goodnight and i always use my wisdom " this translation is not 100% accurate but you should get the idea

Now i'm leaving her 2 days without contact