Hey guys i'm pretty confident with my online game and would say its probably my strongest but nevertheless I haev a question for you. Lately ive been flirting with an hb8/9 on MSN since it is holidays and she is away. She used to be in my class but were going to be seperated next year.

Anyways I've started to control the frame of our conversations and im teasing her alot she's given me plenty of ioi (be it in real life or on IM) but last night when I was talking to her I ran into somethign I had no idea how to respond to nline.


Here's the aprt of the convo it's about: was at about 11pm


Her: I have to go my dad wants me to get off the computer.
me : Nou you are going to stay (did that sound needy?)
me: you are going to tell your father that this is a case of life and dead because you are talking with this handsome intelligent and charming boy (I was the only oen she was talking to) that you fancy him (should I have not said this?) and that you havent spoken to him in two weeks.
Her: haha well I think it's the other way around you fancy me

That last line made me think hard but I just couldn't find the perfect response to it. In real life I would haev said something along th elines of Hell no and went in for the kiss close but obviously that is not an option on IM.

I responded with : It's so cute how you dont awnt to say you fancy me and gave her a goodnightkiss (smiley)

How shouldI have responded or should I have not let it come to this point at all?

''LETS JUST AGREE THAT THERE IS SOME FANCY'ING GOING ON HERE''

or you can just say ''FUCK YEAH I DO, BUT YOUR GOING TO HAVE TO (insert qualifier/hoop here) TO GET WITH THIS''
then guage response and if she qualifies herself to you, then you just disqualify her and make her work,
if she won't qualify then you need more attraction,

you realize, you are supposed to show interest right? indirect is just you wait for her to show interest 1st, 3 ioi's at a bar that is like first 2 minutes, you don't just keep talking and never show interest, ''what is your name?'' is an ioi for fuck sakes


so here is what your going to do,start qualifieing her and showing genuine interest (sexual/romantic) if she qualifies for you invite her over to your house to watch a movie (she knows what this means), if she comes over to your house, she has allready agreed to sex, do not verbalize that sex will be happening, go look up a kino/compliance ladder after that go look up how to deal with LMR, next you escalate her to sex and handle the LMR,

if she flaked on going to your house to watch a movie, then she is not interested, freeze her out for 2 weeks no contact, game other girls in that 2 weeks, after 2 weeks re-initiate contact again, start from square 1, build attraction and try again, if she flakes again, freeze out 2 weeks, do this over and over and over, until she either fucks you, or she asks that you stop trying to contact her

I have definitely showed some interest before which led to her believing I fancied her yet this all happened online and wanst sure if I could use real life answers when online.


Thansk for your advice I will be putting it into practice shortly!

That is almost every guy's biggest problem when it comes to online gaming.

You are NOT a different person online, are you? So why use different answers?

Just talk about things you would in the way that you would if you are actually seeing the other person face to face in front of you.

Stop distinguishing. Start gaming her the way you would in real life.

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