I learn from experience. I've read the mystery method, swingcat, and the game and I'm currently reading magic bullets but when I'm out in the field I don't use half the material till I realize why it's the best thing going (this isn't on purpose it's just learning from actually doing it). I've gone out sarging twice in the past two days (I just started sarging for the first time two days ago) and I get blown out ALOT. I mean I understand that I'm learning here but it's frustrating. By the end of the night I'm just so frustrated I kinda just shut down and stop approaching (this is after 5-10 blowouts in a night). I'm totally going to keep at it but how long did it take you guys before you started succeeding at your goal?

It's different for each of us. With some guys it might not take more than a day, but with most of us it took up to a couple of months to start seeing some success. And we all have different amounts of time we can devote to it too. That's also a factor. Just keep doing what you're doing. Keep learning the material and putting it to use. It WILL pay off.

All depends on your past experience too. If youve been around people some of the material will be presented naturally. Ive had years of retail experience and customer service, so reciting canned lines is no problem. Most of the time(not all the time unfortunately) my frame is strong and solid, I can deliver even dumb ass openers like..."Where the hell is your funny bone? Whyd anyone call it that?" (used this just yesterday on a drunk cougar) lol.

I'd say practice in front of a mirror. Or practice your openers / delivery / body language on a female friend thats sympathetic to your cause. It'll help big time. Plus you may even get a pivot out of it.


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Excellent piece of advice there. I think every guy should do that. If you can deliver yourself to a girl that you know you're NOT running game on, it will help you to realize you can do it to a girl that you ARE running game on.