hi guys. ok so lets say for example that the girl likes cars. she loves to race people in cars. could u guys give me an example of a language pattern that you would use to get her to feel the emotion that she feels when shes racing in a car? thanks guys.

Have sincere interest and ask her about the cars, ask her what it feels like, ask her about her most vivid story.

or, a basic pattern, rework the Discovery Channel Pattern, create the Auto Channel Pattern, something like this (forgive the clumsiness, it's a recycling of one of my own adjustments to the pattern), "I was watching the show on auto racing on the Auto Channel, I don't know why, I just was... they were talking to a driver about racing. He said there are four stages that he goes through from start to finish. Apprehension... there's an uncertainity of what might happen... but that's natural, you know, and he says, "You just have to tell yourself, you know what you're doing, you want to do this, this is what YOU WANT!" Me (self-point), I thought that was interesting, I would've thought you had to be fearless (let her talk)... he said the second thing he experienced was a feeling certainity... relaxed calm, things would be alright, he said it best, I thought, "You have it all under control, you know exactly what your doing," Now, they show him in the seat, and I swear you can see him going through this whole process. The third stage is excitement, just this flow right through you, where everything feels so wonderful, so great, so perfect... "Almost like where your whole body can feel the pleasure of those moments that just float by slower than in reality..." You know what he means... the fourth was the cool down, the afterglow, he called it, "where your heart slows down, and you look back and know it was just great... and YOU CAN'T WAIT TO DO IT AGAIN," With me... that just... looked amazing."

Something like that, you might want to add in a few more feelings, let her talk about her feelings, her process, her excitement, the more she gets, the more you'll captivate her. You capture her attention and she'll do whatever you want her to do.