Okay, I met this lady on Facebook just a few nights ago, a friend of a friend. She's an easy 8.5, and asked if I'd like to hang out and drink some beers with her tomorrow; it's a state holiday, and we're both off work.


One kinda, well maybe huge problem: I can tell by looking at one of her pics, where she's standing w/ my ex gf, she might be about 1/2" taller than me! I'm 5'7 & 1/2".. She looks like she's about 5'8"...

I might be over-thinking this, but don't want to show up, and have her go totally cold cuz of this. I know a lot of women do care about it.

So my choices are:

A) respond with something c/f.... "hell, no I'd need to wear my pumps, cause you'd probably kick my ass in a game of one on one!"

To see if she qualifies herself, after.....



B) just show up and cross my fingers, hoping for the best.....


I'm really thinking choice A. Anyone got something clever or witty????

You can wear high heels !

Man, just go out there, nothing to be afraid off...

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Don't let her size influence in your confidence. I'm 5'7 too, but limiting yourself to only taking girls smaller than you is just closing your game. Don't set boundaries to it, just go along and if she acts as if she kind of cares, meanwhile you should act as if you don't, because you shouldn't, remember she's the one lucky to be with you. Go alpha and show no intimidation, you shouldn't be.

don't draw attention to it, just be yourself (your masterfull womanizer self), try to bang her, don't be self concious about it, just be in the moment

Buddy, you have nothing to worry about here. Let's dissect the situation real quick: 1.) She asked you out for drinks (IOI)
2.) She agreed to go out on a holiday with you (IOI since holidays are usually days you have special plans for)
3.)She wasn't creeped out that you added her on FB and then planned to do something.

She is clearly interested so you should not worry at all about height. If she become colder towards you after meeting you (because of the height difference) then you have a more difficult situation but as of now you are golden.

As for C/F response, I would recommend something of the sort for after you meet her. If you just add her on facebook, and then joke about how she is taller than you, it sub communicates two things; 1.) that this is an issue for you (because why else would you bring it up, after all, you haven't met her in person yet)and 2.) you are clearly telegraphing interest because you've looked through her photos enough to see that she is taller than you. Overall, texting her that sub communicates the wrong things. By all means be C/F and use that sort of material, just wait until you have your first meeting. Every dynamic of the game is changed when you cold approach women online.