ok so im goin out with this new girl, and she likes me like a ton right now. and i want it to be that way for a very very long time. how to i keep her attraction towards me? i dont want to be one of those couples where the girl just decides that shes done and doesnt want you anymore. how do i keep her attraction towards me? thanks guys. i appreciate it.

More info on the girl / and you?

How long you been going out? Well, whatever method you used to make her like you a ton as of now.. keep it up. Be yourself if that's what you've been doing or use the cube if that's whats been working.

I would say generally though.. Keep it fresh. Women like it when a man comes along who is genuinely different and unique.. "Breath of fresh air". Don't want to be the same as every other guy out there.

I don't mean buy a pimp hat.. I mean just be spontaneous. Different.

Also, as it's the start of your relationship.. Try not to stress over this.. she will feel that.. have fun.. so will she.

But yeah, more info?

the girl is 16 and i am 18 we have been dating for like a week and she is CRAZY over me. most of her previous boyfriends only wanted sex and almost all of them cheated on her. idk what kind of info u want?

Well I think the issue is that you do really like her - and she's into you - but there are trust issues that may surface. Correct?

As its early days mate, I would say again, keep it cool - be fun and both enjoy yourselves.

If it does get serious, one of the first conversations you have to have is regarding trust. You need to make sure that all the boundaries are made clear and that you would never cheat on her etc etc or you would stay single. Trust is an issue for her and she needs to be comfortable, knowing you can do your own thing but wouldn't do anything to hurt her.

I think I'm on the right wavelength or I might not be answering your question at all!

no i see what u mean. she also has alot of family issues. should i be sensitive about that or would that come accross as needy? thanks btw.

no i see what u mean. she also has alot of family issues. should i be sensitive about that or would that come accross as needy? thanks btw.

Never bring up those issues yourself. Only if she brings it up, gently try to be understanding, but don't ask for any details.

First, you gotta find out certain information. How long into the relationship did her and her boyfriends fuck? How often? If she doesn't want to say then take take your predictions...and multiply them by 5. And im not even trollin this time.

Dont pay attention to her "family issues". Do you think she likes you because she caught her uncle jerking off to her in the shower? If anything, this typically means that she's clinging to find something meaningful. Something that fills her gap (See what I did there?). You dont need to over compensate for shit just because she clings to you more so than other girls. The best thing you can do is play the psychology aspect of this. Obviously she rushes into shit, that's why she's been cheated on multiple times.

If she does bring those issues up, yes, be a decent human being and tell her it's all gonna be okay. Let her know you are there for her. Let me point out something: If she does bring those issues up. Remember, you dont need to play Dr. Phil. Those are HER issues and you should not be treating her like a special case.

Now, if I had to guess, girls like this typically throw out the "I want to wait for someone special to fuck wahwahwah-". That's why if you want to get into a relationship with a girl, you should find out everything you fucking can from her previous ones. You know, the ones that actually GOT to fuck her. If she's into you, she's gonna jump you like she did them to keep you around regardless of what she says. The best way for that to happen is to "be there" for her yet play on her insecurities by not being there all the fucking time. She WILL get tired of the stupid cutesy shit and realize that if she wants you around, she's gonna have to take that next step.

Now...you guys are just teenagers so im not gonna say anymore than that because you're life's are enough like a fucking soap opera and I personally recommend you take time to live your life without the worry that comes with relationships. If you want to take this chance, then go for it. Just remember it all starts with getting her to want to fuck you. Holding hands and finger fucking her through her jeans isn't a relationship and she WILL lose interest quick if you are her lap dog for the sake of keeping her.

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A Tru nigga

Everytime u get an urge to send a text saying you miss her or kissing her ass in some way as much as it feels right dont do it!

Hope you havent been fake about yourself or that shit will start to wear you out

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Live and let live...

Just get to know her a person, don't be too clingy nor too distant. Find the right balance and really get to know her as a person. Just make sure you never like a girl more than she likes you.