This girl on PlentyOfFish, she's not SUPER HOT.. she's got a nice body.. like a 6 just for her body. She's not really ugly you just wouldn't notice her in a crowd of other skinny girls.

I was talking to her for a while and she showed me her plentyoffish after I called her a liar.

She gets hundreds.. yes.. no joke.. over a hundred messages a day.. holy mother of god. Is PlentyOfFish turning into a huge sausagefest? That would explain why girls are so damn snotty and super serious on there.

So that just makes me wonder, what do HB8s-HB10s get? No wonder so many guys have problems with *Unread Deleted* because if you don't have an amazing profile picture, you're just yet another one of the hundred+ messages that girl got today. I knew there was a swarm of guys trying to get laid on PoF but I didn't think every girl got so many messages daily.

Uh its always been a huge sausage fest. Most online dating sites are. Its not unheard of to hear about a site having 10 or more guys to every girl.
They are not really snotty its more that they can be picker due to there being more guys than girls and that even okay looking girls do get a lot of messages, tho its not true for all girls. And most girls are not that serious. Its the ones that want to get married that tend to be more serious. These girls normally make it pretty clear they want to get married in their profile, so read them and you run into less of them.
A lot of times loads more than average looking girls, but don't assume the hotter girls get a lot of messages, some experience the flip side as guys get discourage so they don't try to message them.
You actually don't need an amazing profile or picture actually, nor an amazing message. A semi unique profile and okay pictures will do believe it or not. Yes there are things you can do to improve your chances but really you don't. The most important thing is actually the message, which is really use to separate you from the other guys which is not that hard to do. Most guys just say "hi how are you" or something like that. Not that hard to stand out from such messages really.

First off this is a waste of a thread since it has been posted a million times. Maybe search the forums first, because actual threads looking to help or needing help are put down for this.

Alright sorry that came off really douche but seriously this is redundant.


I have meet alot of chicks off ok cupid and I have heard from the girls how funny my messages were, how creepy other guys are and everything about this. Sure they get 100s but I have heard from the girls alot of them are from older guys 40 yr olds looking to be a sugar daddy which is creepy on a few levels. Then there are the guys who talk only about sex which is also creepy. Then you have the guys who just say Hi and are compeletly boring.

All 3 of those guys are destroyued by game. Use the subject hey punk and guess what yours is read. Be funny and yours is responded too. Don't be needy and your metting her. Talk to her and your getting laid.