Hi guys! how are u doing ?

this happend about 2 months ago but still I need to learn from my misstakes.

I was dating a HB8 and we had kissed many times and I had touched her breast and so on. She was clearly interrested of mee always wanted to date me. So she invited me to her appartement one day for a sleep over, so of couse as the wannabe PUA I am I went to her


It went great, we started kissing and touching and so on. then came the time to move it forward to the bed and so we did. It was the foreplay, I removed her Braw and took my clothes off. And then suddenly I couldn't push forward to the sex I tried she didnt let me. So I asked her "when are we gonna do it "? and she said "what" I said "this is the foreplay right" and she says "no it isn't" And then she told me alot of BS that she would look like a slut if we fucked. And then we went to sleep.

I know I did alot of wrong things this was before I knew the game, so please tell me what I should have done instead!

sorry about the grammer my english suck, im from sweden

btw I took my clothes off fast! way before she did. could that be a reason ?

sweden
always wanted to go there
i have some relatives there somewhere
ill try to use understandable english for you
anyways here we go....
all right u got her bra off. good work. but then u just randomly took all ur clothes off? - this makes u come off as WAY too eager and looks AFC. Did u rub her clit/vagina? did she have pants on?
Had she touched your dick at this point at all?
NEVER ask : "when are we going to do it?"!!!!!!!!!!
dude thats beyond AFC - thats just creepy and weird
when in doubt - dont talk unless she does
u cant just jump into sex right from making out and touching her boobs.

i assume you are a virgin... which is fine. its good u came somewhere for advice. you need to get access to her vagina by taking her pants off - rub her clit - take off her panties and then rub her clit some more and finger her in order to get her vagina to lubricate itself.
read up on freeze-outs if u have difficulty getting her to take her clothes off and escalate to sex. use the search funciton on this forum.

good luck and cheers

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hehe dude I know what I did wrong! I just needed som advice on what could be smoothier

No I'm not a virgin but sometimes I wonder if I wasnt a good looking (many girsl open me) maybe I would.

but remember this was way before I heard about the game.

it has nothing to do with looks man.. it simply has to do with your eagerness... women have a fear of looking like sluts to everybody and the LMR is all about the comfort of them knowing that's not what's happening.

it's going to take practice but generally let her take off your clothes or give the signal, that's how you know it's foreplay. if you're that eager and she gives it up then it makes her think that she's just easy and others will think the same

LMR (Last Minute Resistance) is just going to happen in most cases. However, if you had done it right it she should have the thought "It just feels right." I agree you probably took off your clothes too fast. You probably shouldn't have asked her when you were going to do it. You should assume it and just go with it during the foreplay. As you're messing around with her, and she says, "We probably shouldn't be doing this..." You just keep kissing her etc. and say, "You're probably right..." but keep it going. When she says, "No" stop but other than that keep assuming with your actions what you want to happen.

Assume the close!
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