I don't qualify as "greatly experienced" but i thought i'd put my 2 cents in here, since i've actually been in 2 similar situations like this a couple of years ago (back then i had no clue what being a PUA was)

So this one time, i was talking to this girl every day like 5 times a day, texting and shit, but i also knew that she was talking to a couple of other guys as well. I made huge mistakes (that i didn't know were mistakes back then) of telling her i really liked her, then eventually telling her i loved her (which i thought i did back then, major one-itis that i eventually got over) anyways, she always responded that she liked me too, we had a lot in common, and she threw in a few "I love you too's" every now and then, although she didn't mean them, but she always kept telling me not to get too attached to her, which i made the mistake of doing. Anyways, the other guy she was talking to, was playing a cool game, not looking like he gave a fuck, and she eventually ended up dating that guy, and never talking to me again since i gave her an ultimatum (again, i wasn't into the game back then)


2nd situation, almost the same (this happened AFTER the first story, i learned a couple of things after that) i was talking to this HB10 fucking gorgeous girl who had a boyfriend, she broke up with that guy and like 30 guys including myself all wanted her. But this time i made it look like i was a fucking MPUA (which i wasn't) basically i talked to her like she was a friend, telling her how many girls i pick up and fuck (not those words though) and telling her that i don't know what all those losers who want her see in her (in a playful manner) and i even told her that she wasn't my type at one point (i didn't mean it obviously) one time, i made her play a game to tell all of the other guys she was talking to that she got engaged with me (just as a joke) like we meet and now she's off the market, i made her do this by telling her just to see how the other guys would respond (cause remember i don't give a fuck about her, we're only friends right? or so she thought) Long story short, not long after that, (remember the whole time i was acting like i could care less if she wanted me) we were talking and she said this: (exact words)


"Hey cutie, i don't care about all the other guys, i LOVE you more than all of them"

LOOOOL

In the first story i told the chick i loved her (she could care less) in the second story i was acting like her friend who could give a fuck about her, and she told ME SHE LOVED ME.

I would suggest you play it cool man, don't seem desperate, be playful but like you could care less if she wants you or not (although i would NOT recommend breaking off complete contact with her) just sort of follow my story and i think she'll be crawiling to you.

Thanks for the tip omega, but what I am really looking for is a more detailed answer on how much to talk to her now. I havent texted her since thursday and today is sunday, but I probably will later today.

I dont know if playing the friend role will work as much since she already knows I'm interested enough to text and we've already made out. I think I'm just going to keep texting fun stuff to keep her thinking about me for another week or so and then try again for the date.

Now remember I picked her up at dry cleaners, we had never met before this and have only been out twice, so I cant really play the good friend either and am not sure if I want to. Any other ideas on how to pull a girl away from a guy she chose over me but wasnt even really sure if she was choosing correctly?