lately I've suddenly developed first time sexual performance anxiety,

for the last 6 girls I have been with, the first time we tried having sex I couldn't get it up!

out of the 6, I tried a second time (at a later date) with 5 of them and successfully got a good hard one and performed really well, and it's never happened in any other situation other then the first time.

I don't understand it. I'm at a point now were I don't want to even try with a girl because the initial time is always so embarrassing. and whats even worse is now that I try to hold off on sex until im more comfortable with the girl the more they try and get it! It's like I found the secret, not wanting sex. last night a girl wanted me to do her at a club bathroom and I denied out of fear.

can anyone recommend what I should do or where I should go for help? It's just so embarrassing, I'm finally making progress with my game and fclosing and this happens.

I'm not even kidding you when I say, start practicing on fucking hood rats. Just girls you aren't proud of boning, because if you can't get it up, then who the fuck cares?

It's purely psychological. I used to be like this when I was an AFC. It goes away, but you need to have sex more often and not be ashamed of how shitty you are in the sack.

First of all, don't masturbate too much..I'd say no more than 3 times a week.

And also, be confident! The more confident you are, the easier it'll be to get an erection:p

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This is solved by Viagra,

Keep a couple in your car. I am young and virile but also had some problems with first-time sex. Only ever had to use it a couple of times. Once you know it works then you will have no more anxiety and then it goes away with the confidence. I'm tellin ya. Take one viagra, doesn't matter how nervous you are. It's goin up!

Hey! Im having the same problem.
Now,. I have just turned 17, but do you think that I still should take a viagra pill?

like officefo says, viagra is great to have as a last result back-up plan I think. I've been considering getting a prescription just because I have issues in the past when I've been drinking and there's nothing more frustrating than having a girl there willing for sex, but it's just not happening