First I'll just give some history between us. We met at a hip hop class that we both took and ended up doing some gigs together, never got her name or # in the beginning but we'd always talk. After our final gig she approached me (ignored all other friends the entire day and was always near/with me) and said we should keep in touch and offered her #.

We've talked a lot through text the past while and normally saw her once a week at choreo, we'd flirt and talk but didn't have too much kino then

She ends up going on vacation for a solid month with fam and I talked to her once a week while she was there (to keep her thinking of me and to remember).

She came back recently and we started talking again, i felt my text game last time I talked to her was awesome and we really clicked and just had a funny/playful time.

Saw her today and things couldn't go better. We learned the choreo, chatted but this time we had a lot more kino (arm/shoulder touches, made our own handshake, chest pumps , her hitting me) Also whenever we watched a quick video she always leaned in and was brushing/leaning on me every time

When we finish we end up hanging for a bit and I offer her a ride home. She lives pretty far from me which is a bummer so making plans with her is really hard. Plus she lives on her own, works and goes to school full time so it's not easy.

Point in me making this thread is I really want to set a date with this girl but it's hard. She's gorgeous, funny and overall a just a cool girl

Any suggestions in what I should do/say so we plan something? I really want to get it rolling now and felt that I should of made a move when I drove her home but didn't.

Side note, we used to have little wagers on who could learn a choreo better and the loser had to buy the winner ice cream. I've won a few as has she but I brought up the ice cream outings twice but to no avail. She's playing hard to get because I think she just wants to ease into it as well as not seem as "easy" to our friends we dance with. The last time I brought up the ice cream thing I told her "When you have time you let me know" and left it at that.

Also I want to maintain the frame and not look like an AFC but I'm getting impatient and really just wanna finally get somewhere with her.

P.S the whole ice cream thing happened before she left on her trip and today was awesome and I just felt like there was a real connection (all the kino and conversation)

Suggestions!!? This chick is cool and I don't want to mess upppp

Any suggestions would be appreciated guys

Dude she approached you! She wanted your knob then and there...

Keep up the friend game any longer and theres a high chance that thats where you'll stay, i cant tell you exactly what to say to close with this girl, for me i say whatever i think at the time when the moment strikes. But its usually out at a club, ive used lines similar to:

-you're laughing having a good time (somewhere a bit private so a lot of people arent staring at you, makes her more comfortable) and when youre BOTH smiling just look her in the eyes, make sure your face is a bit close to her and theres some sort of kino, and just say something like: "kiss me" or "im gonna do you a favor by giving you the best most sensational kiss of your life" or "i think its about time i kissed you"

What also works is just while you're talking and there has to be kino like your arm is around her or on her leg or something simple, then just peck her on the lips, once you peck her it sends so many signals to her brain and her vajayjay that instantly turn her on, after the peck dont say anything and just look her in the eyes for about a second, then full on make-out leads...

You could try the whole Neil Strauss method he always uses, with complimenting her on her scent and sniff her neck real close, then telling her about a humans most sensitive spots are the parts are arent seen like the inside of the arm and thigh, and then touch those areas when youre listing them. Then it leads to biting them, even biting the neck and blah blah its been said so many times...

Also if she is any bit interested, itll take a lot for her to reject you. AND if she does, you now know that you both want different things, so being with her is out of the picture and you can move on...

Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you dont take...

^^ very well said

hurry up and make a move she might think youre gay or something you got it dude

Awesome stuff thanks for the advice guys, next day I'm gonna see her will probably be sometime this week at choreo. I'll try to isolate her at one point (shouldn't be hard) and I'll make a move

I'm thinking of doing it out of the blue or using some sort of line like you said, or I'll just wing it and come up with something on the spot

I'll definitely keep you guys posted on how it goes

Update, she msged me yesterday and we spoke back and forth for a long while and it went great. I feel like my text game has really grown and the conversations are just running real smoothly now. I should post my text game to set up as examples as well as to be critiqued

She mentioned how she forgot some of the moves from the choreo we learned and wanted to know if we could meet up this week so I can teach her. In my opinion this is a huge IOI since there are other ppl who can teach her as well as considering how hard it is to make plans with her since were both so busy.

I asked where she wanted to meet up and she said I could go over to her place tomorrow night and we'll figure out a way to make it work. (another big IOI in my opinion)

Gonna be going there tomorrow to teach her the choreo and hopefully something more

Any routines I can use to escalate to bedroom as well as building up her comfort?

Thanks in advance guys

It seems like you've built Report and Attraction all you need is to make sure you dont skip Kino and create SEXUAL TENSION after that it should be an easy close

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Update

Talked to her today to tell her what time I'd be there everything went great. On my way to her place she got called by her boss to go to work later =/

She told me this but said that if I had already left to come anyway for a bit. Was already on the road so I ended up going.

Got to her place she introduced me to her roomate (another girl) and her roomie was getting ready to go out so while she was there we just talked and hung out.

Roomate left and she brought up the choreo so I began teaching her. I kino'ed her every chance I got even if it was just showing her a simple move I made contact with her as much as possible knowing I would have to speed up it up since she was going to work in around half hour

After a bit of choreo she told me she had to go to work and asked if we were gonna dance tomorrow with our crew. I told her wasn't too sure it was gonna happen and she said if I wanted I could come over tomorrow to continue where we left off and to chill, I told her I'd let her know.

I know this doesn't really count as a flake but I was a little disappointed when she said she had work but it wasn't her fault, I wasn't pleased with it but not angry either and I think she picked up that I wasn't too thrilled, do you think that will hurt my chances?

It's better that you aren't thrilled about it. Neg her for leaving so quickly. When you're together (hopefully tomorrow) kinokinokino and sexualize it. Touch her leg when you don't really need to, play with her hair, whatever.

WHEN you kiss her (not if. If's are for AFC's) do it sensually but quickly. Pull away then push-pull with "You're lucky I'm doing this after you ran out on me yesterday." Smile then go in for another kiss. Show her that you like her, but you're not someone to be tossed around like that, and that she needs to earn things from you.