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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 3:32 am 
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Hey guys, I am a complete beginner to pick-up and have no experience what so ever with girls. I'm 19 years old.. in College. I'm tired of being a AFC and I'm ready to get into the Game.

I haven't read any material yet. What do you recommend to get me started? Any books/ videos/ anything that helped to get you into the game.

My biggest problem is that whenever I go to a club or party I get a lot of anxiety and freeze up when I see an attractive girl. I'm trying hard to change my mentality and I'm ready to do whatever it takes to change my life. :D


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 10:02 pm 
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It's great that you've taken such a leap

i recommend "The Game by Neil Strauss" this is an amazing guide you should study this at least once.

websites like "becomeaplayer.com" it's not been updated in a while but the content is great non the less

Meet some similar minded friends and have an open discussion bout it you'll find it would be easier to relate too

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 11:01 pm 
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I would recommend reading this for starters :)
http://www.learnbodylanguage.org/male_flirting_1.html


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 11:26 pm 
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I'm in the same place as you, I started focusing on my game about a week ago after reading "The Game" By Neil Strauss. And although it is not a very in-depth guide of what you need to know in order to get in the game it is a very strong motivator and shows you Style's(Neil Strauss) journey from an AFC to an mPUA.

I also suggest you read "The Mystery Method" by Mystery and watch his show on VH1 "The pickup artist" (theres only 2 seasons but while watching it you start to see patterns in what AFC's do wrong in-field and provides a good sense of what it will be like)

Then the next thing I can think of is to go out and sarge, your first couple times of sarging should be focused on improving your game and NOT instant results. Also try to get a close friend to go through this process with you (a good wing with the same mindset will prove to be priceless in-field)

Last but not least...ENJOY. If you want to become a PUA you have to have a PUA mentality, don't just put on an "act" of being smooth if YOU believe you are so will others.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:48 pm 
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here are some books i started w/:
i) the game by neil strauss
ii) the mystery method
iii) venusian arts revelation
iv) the venusian arts handbook
v) magic bullets

welcome to the community man.

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