Hey guys.

I few months ago i start trying to get out of the friend-zone with this girl i know for about 7 years. With some info i found on this site it helped. At the time she had a boyfriend and she cheated on her boyfriend for me.

She told me she really doesn't liked her boyfriend. She hated it when they had sex. And she said she was in a realationship with him just because he begged her for a year or so.

After a while she broke up with him.

She still sees him every week because he is in the same group of friends.

I also think she isn't over her ex she dated for a few years before the boyfriend because she just still talks about him.

We've had sex just once. She told some of the issue's she had and that because of the issue she has a bald spot on he head. I freaked out when i saw that.

But she was really in to me and she told me she was in love with me and she wanted to know how i felt. I told her i liked her and that she was the type of girl that could be my girlfriend. Now we had some of a talk and she said that she couldn't have a relationship with me because she didn't know for certain i was the right guy.

I told her that we couldn't go back to just be friends. And i said i had to go. She grabbed me and wanted to cuddle. I pust her gentle away and went.

An hour later she texted me.
It really sucked how things go. And the weird thing is i'm having al these questions right now. Why did you regret dating with me? I really wish you al the best as your friend, i really want to give you everything as your girlfriend. But i can't right now. Sorry.

I didn't reply to the text.

What should i do next? I really like this girl.

Next this broad, she is playing head games with you.

First of all, you are 100% right about her not being over her ex. Any chick who stays in contact with her ex is still harboring emotions for that person, and that is the kind of messy situation you shouldn't put yourself into. But seeing how you've already put yourself in a situation by being that dude who the girl cheats on her bf with, its a little too late.

Despite that, let's move forward. So she tells you that she's "into you and is in love with you"... but she only wants to be friends and doesnt know if you are Mr. Right. Have you ever been in love yourself? You know, that feeling of butterflies in the stomach. We all know women tend to think more with their hearts, so if a girl really is in love with a guy, she will rationalize in every way that the guy is the right one. But it doesn't sound that way from the way she is acting with you. She sounds a little confused about what she wants... you, her ex, and quite possibly any other side pieces she had while she was in a relationship.

Do yourself a favor and ask yourself, if you and her were to get serious, what's to say she won't do exactly what she did to her ex? And from the fact that she's still in contact with him, I guarantee she will go running back to him if you and her ever got into a fight. Seriously man, think about it. If that's the type of girl you really want then you will have to get advice from some of the other members on the forum. But if I were you, I'd move on to the next girl. This girl won't be the only girl you really like.