Me and a girl I have been really tight with (FWB), we had a talk about getting serious. She mentioned she loves being with me, but she doesnt want to stay with me and tell guys she is "seeing someone" when were not serious, she said "its not a waste of my time, but Im not seeing what there is to offer". I told her we cant get serious, but we can stay FWB. I said she can tell other guys whatever she wants, thats how I see our relationship is like, an open one...

Now, ever since that shes been hanging out with this "old friend and classmate" of hers. ALOT. Like 3 times a week. Im not too worried, she obviously cant be cheating on me were not serious, but I would like to know, cuz if shes that type, I dont want to even get close to being serious with her.

Basically, she goes to his house once a week I believe, maybe more.
On facebook they flirt, ex: HER- Thanks for everything, buddy. You're the best FRIEND- your the best my sweetie
His status was something about her putting ice down in boxers...

Idk, she should know that FB is public, I dont think she cares if everyone sees it. so either shes good good friends with this guy, or she is banging him.

Like i said, I am not worried, and knowing that shes sleeping with him isnt gonna make me jealous, but we havent had sex yet, so I was just wondering. I doubt im going to ever get serious with her, but its just something ive been curious about, since she says to me she doesnt hang around any guys except for him and their just friends. if shes lying about that, she could be lying about more serious things like STDs or whatever.

But we sent some pretty sexual texts just today, thats why im sorta confused...bottom line is, if I am banging her, my needs are met, i could care less if she cheats or not, but, it would make the sex better knowing her vag is in tip top shape for my "buddy" ONLY

So we started texting and I turned it sexual instantly. If youd like a FULL dialogue I can provide, but I don't want this thread to look too long to read

Part of the texts:

ME- Que Pasa?
HER- Taco taco, im in class, youu?
ME- Mi taco favorita es taco rosa
-we speak spanish for fun sometimes. it means "my favorite taco is pink taco"
HER- Um what lol, ew
ME- What can I say Im a raging hormone male lol
HER- No way Jose
ME- Give me some of ya
HER- Comin right up!!
ME- Im bringin the handcuffs and blindfold out babe, im comin!
HER- lol you crack me up!
ME- Dont be playing with yourself in class now, I dont want you getting caught...
HER- too late!!!
ME- Your just asking for a spanking arent ya
HER- Hahah

(She didnt get too into it, it wasnt good timing on my part, she was in class. wish she was alone, then it coulda been better!)

Another part:

HER- I have the house to myself from the 15 to 21!!!
ME- Sex marathon!
HER- You mean beer pong tourny?
ME- Same thing! But u would be way to easy with alcohol in you, so not every night, we need to spend some "quality time" alcohol free
HER- Thats true
ME- I want u to remember the amazing performance ill deliver or its worthless ill ttyl im partying...

I wanted to end the conversation on a good note, not push it all the way to "goodnight babe" thats boring and theres no cliffhanger. I know I coulda done better, maybe ended a few texts back, but oh well

I personally think when I meet her when my parents and her parents are out of town for a week, I will get "that thang, and put my name on it", but let me know what you guys think. I know some girls dont like being with two guys at once as well, and she seems like she might be that type, but idk for sure. you guys kno this better than i do!

Thanks!

You claim to be FWB with her...but you haven't fucked her....you say it's alright for her to see other guys....and you make a thread on a PU forum about how she's possibly fucking another guy....you dont want to be exclusive.....but you only want her fucking you.....
What type are you even talking about? The type of girl that likes penis?...

Haha.


Guys that dont get jealous dont worry about things like this....

For fucks sake do you not see the flawed logic in all of this?

Sounds like you're being used as an ego boost. You've gotten no pussy from her, she's regularly fucking another guy, and it really doesn't sound like she's too receptive from those conversations.

You're being played my son. Very well I might add.

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Gotta agree...what is FWB without fucking?

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Hey guys, granted it sounds pretty f*cked up and I guess it is. What it comes down to is, I don't care anymore if she's with other guys, all I want is her vag, she ain't girlfriend quality sound like... ill go to her house sitting place next weekend and escalate like a mofo, if she ain't up to do anything, or says let's just be friends, I'm takin my shit back and im not even going to tell her its over, I just wont contact her.

Since I met her, I've been going down the wrong path, being the "too nice" guy, getting played. I know my relations with other girls will be better I've learned a sh*toad from all you guys on the forum and personal experiences. I am not going to waste my time with this girl if shes not going to put out, i know im late to just be getting into sex with her but might as well give it a shot.

Thanks for the help tho guys *sarcastic tone*

Even if you just want to be FWB, I would hold off with all that sex talk until you actually have sex otherwise you could just come off as a creepy weirdo.

Definitely agree with what driedfruit said, and want to add a reminder that sex is much more mental over physical than it is for guys. By talking all your sex texting, she's actually getting something from it, while you're just trying to escalate her mind. She's getting all horny, and you're not there to jump in and help her out, so she's finding someone else. Either switch your sex talk to in person (which could be creepy), or cut it out, so she misses it, and may think of you differently...

Ok those are some good points, about it being more mental than physical. But when it comes to actual sex, guys are turned on by actions & sight, when women are turned on more by the SPAM, sounds, and actions.

About talking about sex, maybe that applies to women you are not as comfortable or familiar with, but we have been hanging out for 3 months, and it works great. Yesterday, I was telling her about when I write the ABC's with my tongue, shes gonna make a lake on the bed, and people are gonna think there was a major roof leak" and she ate that up, along with some other things I said, slowing my voice, and getting more serious, she started responding great to it, and talking slow and hot, and then started making out, then nothing happened cuz we were at her parents house lol!

But turns out, I went over to the house she is watching last week, and she wanted to watch "Entourage" but I said we should just give each other massages and she agreed, so we got in the shower together, and things got crazy she was grinding on my shlong in the shower while we were washing each other off.
We headed to the bedroom and I made a mistake by giving her massage first, so she was a little more relaxed after and not as into it, but I teased her like crazy, started on her back up by her neck all the way down, rubbing, kissing, licking, and then she flipped over and started at the toes, to teasing her inner thighs and waist and then ended making out with her for a bit. Then her massage was alright, just teasing my dong and rubbing all over and kissing my body and then breathing hot and heavy and biting/kissing my ear and THAT was awesome! (Tell a girl to do it sometime, and it has to be the right side ear too)

Then we played a dice game where it chooses what u do and where. We decided to sub the words "back" for butt and "toes" for chest. That game got crazy as well, I did alot of stuff and I dont wanna write a novel on it but I have some great tips for teasing if you guys are interested in knowing. Anyway, the fursthest I got was kissing, breathing on her vag thru her panties, and then when she started giving me a handy I was like whoa and stuffed my hand down her panties and went to town. One thing I SHOULDVE done more was TALK DIRTY! Whispering what your going to do to a girl gets her wet way easier.

So yeah, all is good with this girl, and I had a talk with her, things are straightened out, as far as I know, and her friends know, including the gay guy friend who I can ask any secrets about her if I want, all know shes only been with me in the past 6 months, so its bueno.