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Do these patterns really work?
I've never honestly tried these patterns.
When first reading them they sound creepy and then I have no idea how to even execute them without looking like a weirdo.
The effect of the more complex NLP patterns increases with rapport. More rapport, stronger patterns. I've used them successfully, but not within the first ten minutes after meeting a girl. Personally, I use them either during an instadate or when I've got a girl in my bed to deal with any LMR.
Now, as to sounding creepy, it depends on your frame. If you're trying to do one of the more complex patterns covertly... yeah, it'll probably be creepy. For simple stuff, it doesn't matter. Simply changing your tone when saying "Don't... imagine me naked. Omg, you are such a perv! I can't believe you!" to make the 'imagine me naked' a command rather than a statement won't be noticed. At least, I've never had a girl notice it.
For the more complex stuff, just keep in mind that as long as you have that fun, aloof and dominating vibe, nothing you do will come across as creepy. (Think negs. If done wrong, creepy.) Make it playful during an instadate, such as...
"Do you believe in magic?" (Fun, teasing tone)
"No."
"Really? Alright, give me your hands. Now. I want you to... think of a number from one... two four..."
"Ok."
"It's three."
"OMG! How did you know?!"
"It's... magic." -wink- "Now, close your eyes, I'm going to show you something even cooler. [ insert nlp pattern here ]"
Just make the patterns progress naturally, as if they were a part of the conversation and it's normal to talk about it; that way it won't be creepy. Frame the whole thing as if you're just showing her a cool trick, or you're showing her something interesting you didn't really believe yourself ("One of my friends is convinced he can seduce a woman using just his words. Can you believe that?!" "No" "Neither did I, but I was out with him the other day. We start talking to a couple girls and after a while, he says to one of them... '[insert pattern here]") or you're just bullshitting (-teasing-"I'm going to seduce you.... [insert pattern here]") anything! Just don't take it seriously. Having fun and keeping her laughing will switch off her critical factor, allowing you to get away with things you wouldn't normally... such as an NLP pattern.
Ohhh... one more thing. Don't memorize patterns word for word. If you do, when you recite them you'll come across as rehearsed and robotic.... in other words, creepy. Learn the concepts behind why they work and make up the exact words on the spot. Change the wording to fit the situation and this particular girl. Be flexible, etc.
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