well, i'ma get straight to the point
basically, me and my girlfriend (who i picked up after reading "The Game") have been trying to have sex for like a month. Problem is I can't get in. Either I have a big dick or she's just tight as hell. We're both virgins and I really don't know what to do about it, aside from maybe fingering her. So if any of you got any advice, I'd love to hear it

are u using enough foreplay?

u need to make sure she arroused enough for her vagina to self-lubricate itself
so ummm have u never fingered her b4?
either way- the night ur trying to have sex - start out fingering her with one finger for a few minutes
then switch to 2 fingers for few minutes
then she should be ready for u

just make sure 2 go slow man

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She's too nervous.

this is gonna get graphic:



Get some lube or go down on her for a while first and use lots of spit. Then have her put her legs on your shoulders (I'm assuming you guys are going missionary first time around) rub your dick all over the mess you just made and then trace your dick up from her ass into her pussy while she puts her legs back down.

oh and tell her to fuckin relax, when you guys are done you're gonna be like "what the fuck was that?" aaaaand be ready for a lifetime of her being in love with you. Everyone you ever meet who's "deflowered" a girl should know what I'm talking about.

i had this same problem when i was a virgin and so was my partner. to make it worse, i was nervous and would get soft every time i finally got in!

are you fully erect while you are trying? what position are you guys using?

Finger her for a while, play with her tits. Have her give you head to get it really hard, then try.

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IMO, its got nothing to do with sexual techniques or anything, thats phase 2. Whats phase 1? tell her you love her firstly, and don't feel like a chump for doing so. How many times do you remind her of this? communicate this whether it be in words or body language. Theres not way your GF could be physically aroused without knowing this, without knowing you're gonna be there after sex. The mind comes before the body so dare i say, make love to her mind before her body. Good luck and make sure to use a helmet before you get on the field

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ite yeah got in thx for the help guys. i have fingered her before to answer someone's question but i mostly go for the clit. I basically attacked this one on all fronts, fingered her gently, foreplayed plenty, went slow, and waited until she was telling me that she wanted me in her.