My ex and I are still very close. We dated for about a year and broke up back in October. We still talk on the phone about every night, and she has admitted to me that she still loves me a lot (admitted even more when she's drunk). We broke up because I didn't exactly know where I was going in life at the time, I was 20 (21 now) and just hadn't figured it out yet.

Friday, I showed up at her place around 10 unexpectedly and gave her a bunch of flowers (we had met each other 18 months before on that day). Her boyfriend was there, but when I went upstairs to say "hi" to her younger brother, she stopped me in the hall and gave me a huge kiss. Totally made my weekend. Later that night when we were talking, she kept saying how much she missed me and that she wished she could have kissed me more.

When she was drunk Saturday, she was texting me and really opening up, saying she was still in love with me, but felt like she loved both of us. She said I'm the only one who knows how to make her truly happy though, and the one who's always been there for her through everything.

I love her (a lot), and I was wondering if there's any way I can get her back? I'm just trying to play it smooth and be myself, and I seem like I'm headed in the right direction, but I need something to "seal the deal."

Sorry but to get your ex back you need to walk away, you need to tell her simply and clear choose, you choose your boyfriend, ok bye.BE A MAN GIRLS WANT THAT. And brake contact with her. start datiing other girls. Like I always say, she needs to miss you, or you be the one to boost her ego, on meanwhile she is fucking another guy, girls are manipulative, she likes your attention ofc. Brake contact go have fun, she probably will call you weeks later, and you need to BE THE PRIZE NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. Staying with her being her gay friend wont lead to you anywhere.

Btw this thread should be moved!

Hi,

Good ideal, pls try to keep posting. I like this topic very much and I will digged this one. Tks again.

i just broke up with my girl..like 5 days ago..i had told her..'quit ur bullshit or im out'
she then replied so r u braking up with me?..which i told her "u said it"..
things went all down hill from ther..(keep in mind we had bin dating for 3.5years..)

i deleted the whole lot..
facebook, texts, number, pictures, emails...(still getting around to doing the ones of us on my laptop) LOL!

she called me abt 6hours ago..which i ignored, then texted me.."having a realy sad night,just wanted to tell u...please ignore that call..sorry:(.....)

LOL!!i duno..blocking out and totally moving on does wonders mate..
id take her back..(i think)..but moving on is just gna be as easy..

iv fixed alota inner game stuff, with david deangelo materials..i think its made me what i am today..

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