I am new to this. I have already read Style's The Game and Mystery's Venusian Arts. I have also perused this forum quite a lot.

The question I present here is: Will being able to pick up women truly satisfy you?

I previously believed that women were the source of my problem. That since I never truly had one, they must be the reason for my inner turmoil, for my inner lack of peace. So I set off on a mission and a resolve to be able to attract any women I desired.

But after reading these accounts of how these mPUGs have picked up woman after woman, slept with woman after woman, and then discarded woman after woman to only chase after more women, I wonder whether this is the right path for anybody. These PUGs are perhaps the greatest at seducing women, but they may also be the most hapless.

The reason why most men want to seduce women is to fill that inner void in their being. Style had that inner feeling of failure everytime he looked at a woman. Perhaps PUAs have this rash and they keep on itching and itching, and realize before it's too late that the more they itch, the itchier the rash becomes.

In other words, would this path of lust and desire truly lead to happiness and satisfaction? What was my original intent in getting into the game? Was it to pick up women, validate myself as someone bigger than what I had previously thought, and then fulfill my lustful desires? Or was it rather to reach a small measure of peace?

What is your opinion on this? Do you believe that entering the Game will satisfy you, or do you believe that you will enter a never ending cycle of opening, closing, and discarding that will eventually leave a desire for true love? Do we want it to end? Shall we be content with running, striving, and achieving without any goal in mind? Shall we be content with being creatures who cannot love?

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Will being able to pick up women satisfy me?

Hmm, you know that's a tough question. I'll admit that in the moment, it truly is satisfying. The more I work at this, the more I'm starting to understand the PUA paradox... the hole that's never really filled by conquering your fears/whatever with women. The fact that the more women you go through, the more you see they're all the same...and the depression that comes with it.(No, I'm not depressed! And neither should you be!)

I'm becoming a very strong believer that Pick-Up isn't just about filling that hole with women. It's about developing the confidence, character, and way of life that you find satisfying. I said that I'm discovering the PUA paradox to be true...but on the upside, I've never ever felt better about who I am! I once felt that the only thing I couldn't do in life was pick up girls. With the ability to do this now, I feel like there's nothing I can't do! With this big obstacle out of the way, and the things I've discovered about myself along the way... I realize I can conquer any goal in life using some of the basic inner-game stuff I've learned in the community.

So essentially, yes this path is leading me to a life of happiness and fulfillment. My hope is that one day, when I've cycled through enough women I will be able to better pick out the needles in the haystack. The needles being the women who I truly desire, the ones who I can find a true loving relationship with. My fear actually, is that I've already found one. It's not affecting my game with her, but I'm afraid of not being able to pick-up anymore...it's something I just don't want to give up right now! Fucked up, isn't it?

Oh well, drug addicts have heroin...we have girls. Pick your poison.

~Muse

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What is the purpose of life?

Answer : to fuck

That's up to every person to figure out on their own. You need to decide what's gonna make you happy in life and pursue it. If that means living in a monastery and not every touching a woman, great, if that means fucking 10 girls a day, great, if that means just learning how to attract any girl you want, so that when you find "the one" you don't fuck it up, then great. Its up to you how to use what you learn. You could, in theory, use all the stuff you learn about being a pua, just to become a better person and NEVER use it to pick up women. I've been working so hard on just building amazing inner game, that I haven't been out fucking women left and right, I don't need to, I'm working on me right now and I'm already getting noticed by girls that I like, just by being a great person and they want to be around me.

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