So before I begin, I'm going to nickname the 4 major players in this report:

Foto: He's a professional photographer going through a divorce. And the guy I'm staying with for a month
Pilot: A part time pilot who's waiting to get enough hours to go commercial and who offered for me to go up and get some flight time with him.
Dwarf: The wife of Pilot, HB6

HBQueen: She's a waitress/bartender at restaurant I frequent. She's HBQueen because she's won a number of beauty pageants. She's 19.

Also throughout the report I'm going to include learning points. They're probably simple things, but just bare with me.

The day starts with Pilot and I going flying and afterwards Foto takes all out to dinner. We all get to the bar and HBQueen comes up to take our order. Foto immediately starts talking to her and his obviously interested. Pilot turns to me and loudly says, obviously seeking her attention, "Hey man, how'd you enjoy that flight today? Pretty sweet when we did that roll eh?"

Two things I got from this. It was apparent to everyone that Pilot was trying to demonstrate to the girl that he was a pilot which I took as a DLV, while at the same time he was asking me about it and seeking my approval which was a DHV for me.

However, I wasn't even attempting to talk to HBQueen. She also mentioned early on that she had a bf which I took to mean she was trying to give a hint. Also, with Foto and pilot already fighting for her attention, I felt that jumping into the mix would just be a DLV. It would be practically impossible to get a word in edgewise with those two blabbering on. So I let them chat for the entire time we were there. I was seemingly uninterested in their conversation when she came by to talk, and often turning to dwarf who was rudely being ignored by her husband. However, I did everything with the utmost confidence.

However, by the end of the night Foto had offered HBQueen to go flying with Pilot and I the next day. HBQueen agreed which I thought odd, why would you go flying with someone you just met? But I felt, by the way she looked at me that her real reasoning was that she wanted to get to know me better, the one guy not trying to get her attention. I quickly discredited this as me just being cocky, hopeful or both.

The next day, before we get to the airport, Foto does some prep work by telling HBQueen that I was gay. Apparently, he had seen the way she looked at me too. We pile into the four seater plane which she sits in the front due to Pilot's insisting despite the fact that I was the one getting lessons. During which, Dwarf is desperately trying to get Pilot's attention, including climbing up into the plane to get a kiss which he just blows off and cusses her out. I made the remark, "how classy."

We get up in the air and pilot keeps switching off my comms to talk to HBQueen... most of the flight was silent for me, so I just sat in the back and stared out the window. Bored out of my mind. Finally we landed and, Foto picks us up. In the car with Foto and HBQueen, Foto mentions "Wow, what's with Pilot being an ass to his wife." I give some reply that I wasn't really going to discuss it, and started small talk with HBQueen as we headed to eat a a restaurant. Again Dwarf was ignored and I talked to her. I felt bad.

Learning points so far:
Building attraction:
Leader of men: Pilot sought my approval multiple times through to this point in addition to that. I showed to her that I wasn't going to get into petty gossip and drama and mentioned that to Foto who obeyed and quickly changed subjects.
Pre-selection: I could see that Dwarf was being ignored and that she was highly upset. So I talked with her. She knew I was there for her therefore showed a lot of respect towards me which was easily seen.

Pilot turning off my mike meant he felt threatened by me. Since I hadn't made a move on HBQueen yet, this most mean that I'm a catch? Or am I reading too much into it?

The next day she came by the house. I was helping foto do some insulation work in his studio upstairs. Dwarf and HBQueen organized his props. Again, i didn't talk with HBQueen very much, but Dwarf and I playfully flirted.

She came over that same night and stayed for a good few hours. She and I again, barely talked. Foto is the type of person that dominates any conversation. However, i didn't give off an appearance that this was a source of insecurity for him. I focused around a mind set that I was allowing him to do most of the talking. And this was true when I had to rein in on him a bit especially after he started smacking her with a 12'' dildo.

Just after she left that night she sends Foto the following text:

"Tell [Aladdin] goodnight"

he asked me what I should send back to her and I said, "Tell her, that she should tell me herself." He relayed the message along with my number. A few minutes later I got up to go find my phone to see if she had messaged me. She had. We had some small talk before she finally said, "You're shirt is really comfy to sleep in." (I had let her borrow a shirt btw)

"So... what you trying to do to me?"
"What do you mean?"
"By giving me the mental image of you wearing nothing but panties and my shirt."
"Who said anything about underwear."
"LOL! Whatever it is you're trying to do. It's working"

For the next 5 hours we talked sex which she finally sent, "I had the most amazing orgasm." We made plans for the real thing to happen the following night.

Seeing as how I had barely talked to this girl the entire time I'd known her, it made me realize the importance of confidence. The only thing I had done the entire and time is just portray confidence in my walk, and mannerisms. This made me realize that from here on out, my number 1 rule above all else is "Be confident"

However, that fell through. She sent a text that she regrettably couldn't make it. I went on with it and the next day she sends a text saying that she had a talk with her boyfriend the night before and that she felt she did a good thing by not having sex with me and talking to her boyfriend instead. She told me when i asked that she'd come over and just chill, but that I shouldn't expect anything else.

Disappointment. But I wasn't going to give up that easily. I thought long and hard about what to do and finally i said, "You must really love this guy if you are willing to have a long distance relationship with him and make it work." (The bf is spending the summer in canada.)

"No, I don't love him, we've only been dating for half a year."

"Oh, well you must really be thinking of the future then. You must be thinking of marriage and having 1.5 kids and all that."

"No, I'm not thinking of marrying him. I'm just afraid Karma will get me back if I sleep with you."

"Karma? Surely you really care for this guy and that's why."

"Lol, no I just don't want to piss off Karma. I'm superstitious."

At this point I felt confidence I had avoided the BF obstacle and was sure that I could kick Karma's ass if it really came down to it. So I changed subjects while the conversation was on a high note and did the cube on her. She loved it, texting me while she was bartending at her job. Getting in trouble for it too, which I took as an IOI. She told me to pick up a scary movie and that she'd be over after work to watch it with us. I replied, "lol, what are you? my slave master? Pick up your own scary movie "

She couldn't text me back again due to her work. I mentioned to Foto this gist of what was going on. He picked up 4 scary movies for us to watch that night. She came over at around midnight. She just comes walking in without knocking or anything.

"Hey, lets go. We need to go pick up a movie from walmart. I didn't know which one to get."

"Don't worry Foto grabbed four for us to watch. Sorry, i should've mentioned that to you."

Finally, we watch two movies and throughout both of them she was practically in my lap, hiding her face in my shoulder at every scary scene. Foto was doing the same to her. After the movies were over, Foto went to bed. We discussed where HBQueen would be sleeping. She said she'd be going home. I started to get up, because I thought that meant she wanted to leave, but she asked, "what are you about to do?" Well it was 4 in the morning, so I thought that question was a little dumb. But I mentioned to her that I wasn't tired because I'd spent the last two nights staying up till 5-6 in the morning. I blamed the first night on her. She smiled.

She asked if we could watch TV. I told her sure, but unfortunately the cable wasn't hooked up, and all we had was a DVD of the series "Big Bang Theory." I grabbed the case, put the DVD in and started it. When I turned back around I noticed that she had sprawled out across the couch. Laying on it and taking up the entire thing. I took this as a good thing. Instead of sitting in the very comfortable love seat I walk up to her and say "Scooch" she asks which direction. I don't reply I just crawl in behind her and sort of spoon her. She lays on her stomach and I begin playing with her hair.

I tested the waters a little bit and ask her how hard she had to hold herself back that night. She knew what I was talking about and just giggled. Bingo. I moved forward. Rubbing her back, the slowly rubbing her back beneath her shirt. As I did so I would run my finger along her pants line. And down her side. Then I'd go back to rubbing her back. I repeated this multiple times. Each time getting closer and closer till I was playing with her ass and tit. I asked her how hard she was having to control herself now. She laughed again and said, "but I'm enjoying it."

I smiled and said, "Well I figured that out by the way you started breathing hard and how tense you get when I...." I didn't finish I my sentence, I just slowly started running my hand down her back toward her breast.

"I DON'T TENSE UP!" she said with a smile.

"Well now you're not because you're controlling it!" She laughed... I moved forward, turning her on her back and well yea...

Now, my situation with her is iffy. She showed regret over what we did. But two nights later she came over again and while her friend was asleep in her lap we made out three times and I played with her a little.

She has come back by the house every other night since the first. The last two times she was obviously looking for my approval. Fishing for compliments. I never gave too much of a response. Not sure how to deal with that exactly. However, i feel I handled it wrong, because she hasn't really talked to me since. Either the guilt of cheating on her bf got to her, or I did something wrong....

In any case...

This is how I got to the lay close. Feel free to give advice and critiques. I'll listen to each.[/b]