So lets say you meet a girl for a date and she is a little heavier then her pics showed or she isnt as hot as you thought.

I went on a date and she looked about 40lbs less in her pics. I mean I don't find fat people attractive but at the same time she is really nice. So I said whatever I'll just have a god night almost if I was hanging out with a guy. Problem was my un needness and my unintrest only made her like me more. Now by all means she is a good person, but I am not attracted to her.

So how do you go about letting a girl down with out hurting her feelings. I have never actually broken up with a girl, always other way around and it sucks. And in all honesty if she was skinny I would date her, however I can't say that.

Assuming you went out with her one or twice just tell her your not interested or if you don't have the balls to tell her just don't reply to her calls/texts.

be rude, it's easier for her to get over it if there's no contact whatsoever.

"Hey Miss, I'm sorry but I think we're not meant to be." The end.

I think we can all take something useful from this: If you're out on a date with a HB and you think you're acting a little too needy, just imagine she's 100lb heavier!

Well, don't take time about it. That will never help anyone.

Just do it quick and to the point.

"I think we are great how we are. I am not sure if I am comfortable with taking things to the next level. Hope you understand."

and done.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Pretend that you are busy or up to something and ignore her call and text..


I had the same situation like yours before, on the photo on her facebook she looks
slim/slender but when we met personally she was chubby.. lottsa girls
use photoshop these days or even if it's okay they still try to edit it.. enjoy and goodluck!




-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.