Im stuck. I'm really stuck. I got a problem..
Im falling for a girl I picked up.

Usually I pick up girls yada yada and we end up being fark buddies do to mutual agreement but this girls different. She's genuinely nice, sweet, and confident as hell. She told me she liked me and she knows I like her back, and now I'm stuck. I know part of pick up is about getting 'the girl' to like you via routines/naturalism and what not but now I got the girl hooked and I'm stuck in a hole. I've never gotten this far before and I dont know what to do, whats acceptable, if I should even run "game" at all since I know i got her hooked. Please help me out!

Depends on what you want. I mean yeah, pick up is about getting laid, but it's also about getting girls. I mean shit, I do exclusive dating, you can have a serious relationship with someone and still be a PUA. It's not a mortal sin of pick up to fall for a girl. I honestly love being in relationships, being a boyfriend is awesome if you found a good girl. I just use pick up to a. get laid when I'm not in one, and b. Meet girls that I may want to be with in a relationship.

Just remember these rules.
1. Don't count on the relationship lasting forever, enjoy it while you have it but don't be surprised when it's over.

2. You said you're falling for her, I assume you mean falling in love. There is some myth going around that love doesn't happen, which is BS, it's just much more common than most people think. So even if you love this girl, realize that you will love others girls too, and don't get hung up on her. When the relationship is over, don't mourn your loss, go out and meet other women, because you will find someone better than her.

3. Keep gaming throughout the relationship, you will just be running a different kind of game. I suggest Carlos Xuma's Girlfriend training program, or Savoy's relationship management.

4. Don't completely stop sarging. Still go out and meet other women, just don't sleep with them. (unless you are into cheating, I'm not going to give you a morality lesson here) Keep your social skills sharp.

What is your question?

You ask us to tell you whether you still need to run "game" on a girl you are committed with?

Or you ask us to commit with the girl?


Concerning the former: LTR is no PUA but shares some elements of it, especially in the earlier stages of the relationship. Be a man, be a leader, be alpha, protect her, fuck her hard and make her orgasm all the time, do stuff, surprise her, go on trips, have fun. and it's not forbidden from time to time to say you like her, but be careful with giving complements. use them only rarely in the beginning.


Concerning the latter: how can we know? Why should it be WRONG to commit with a girl? Don't be afraid of sticking to a girl you really like. Just be sure you aren't going to lock yourself in a LTR if you know before you prefer to be single. You don't stay forever young, being the player fucking random girls. If you get older, it's time to move on and to settle in life. All depends whether you are ready to move to that stage, yes or no.

Good luck bro

as long as your confident in your mind that it is not AFC love--infatuation with someone you barely even know--then u should be ok