Ok few nights ago me a my wing man go out have a few drinks I see HB10 bartender and chat her up a bit a pull her Facebook info so I add he PM the girl the next day and see that it says Religious Views aspiring Buddhist I Comment "aspiring Buddhist whats up with that ? =)P " No reply so I say the next day Hey Its tony from the bar =)
she replies .

her " yes i remember! "

Me "you worked at playboy ?"

Her " ya, i get body painted at some of the mansion parties"

Me"That is sick' take me to a playboy party =)p So are you just enjoying single life
like me, or is there reason why you don't have a boyfriend?"

Her" i got out of a 2 yr relationship about 2 months ago and i just wanna b drama free for a while"

Me'Well that's why i did not git a drama vibe from you but i did git a napkin and tasty drinks =)P (the napkin had her info on it )

Then nothing ???????????

so next day I leave a post on her wall "remember that time you fell on the floor =)P"
Her > lol lol shut ur mouth!
ME > Make me '

And now nothing what should my next steps be to escalate this ? any help ? or ideas I am way out of my comfort zone when it comes to online gaming why did i ask for a fb ?????????? lol

Do you see a trend here?

She leaves you hanging ever single time.

Tone down your excitement levels first. Then, act a little mature.

She's probably seen a hundred guys like you hitting on her because she's been to Playboy parties. You gotta show her you don't care much about that.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I think you lost your chance with this one. You got too excited and you didn't help things mentioning Playboy mansion. The next time you run into such a girl don't get excited for one and focus on her not what she does. She get enough guys hitting her for what she does and all sort of attention along with it. Totally ignore it. So what if shes been to the Playboy mansion.

I am going to close this deal .

Why would you post here, if you're not gonna take the critique you get? Obvioiusly there's a reason she leaves you hanging, and quite honestly - I think this is a insta eject or atleast leave it for a good 2-3 weeks.

your energy level is also pretty high, i'd tone down the emotion a bit.

The reason I posted is I appreciated your guys take on the situation =)
I never do online gaming ' so was thinking you guys may have some input
anyways I just got back from the bar she works at with a group of friends and things went well I just don't give up like that lol

The thing is you need to know when you cut your looses and quit. Because right now your pretty much like any other guy that has hit on her before. You can try and close the deal but I can bet you the chances of you closing now is slim. You met her in person only to end up gaming her online only to meet her again in person. You need to close the deal the FIRST TIME YOU MEET HER.

Ya I definitely have tiger's blood, can you say winning LOL And if I don't close its going to be fun trying =) thanks for the help guys I will bring down my amp energy level I did not notice till I looked at my text I kinda just always have a crazy level of energy .

She is a hired gun for crying out loud....her job is to flirt and keep you coming back to the bar:p

I'm not saying it's impossible to close, but it is highly unlikely when you are acting like every other customer she has been flirting with.