Hey fellas...
Over the past few months I've been able to develop a great mindset that has helped my inner game and I wanted to pass it along to you.
The Approaching Mindset
If you freeze up before you approach a girl remind yourself of a few things...
1. If it doesn't turn out successful, who cares. Chances are you will NEVER see the girl again in your life.
2. Be a man - Stop making excuses. If you see something you want go out there and get it. The worse thing she can do to you is blow you off, who cares.
3. Understand your value - Never treat a girl like she's better than you. If she's not interested in you, it's HER loss. You need to believe that you're a great person and you have a lot to offer.
4. She's not the only girl in the world - If the approach doesn't go well, there will be more girls you come across..
5. Value your time - If she's not interested in you, don't sit there and try to impress her. Move on with your life. You have better things to do than impress a girl, she should be the one trying to impress you.
6. Don't be so eager, play it cool - Be comfortable and relaxed. Don't tense up, don't stutter, play with your hands etc... she's just a human being, just like anyone else.
Those are 6 mindsets that I go by...
Feel free to chime in with your mindsets
CHAT
