whats up guys, some of you have helped me on another thread... basically

ex of 5 years, on and off the past year. she has a 8yr old daughter she says she wants to devote her time to and she does. She dosn't see other men (according to her nor does she even go out with her friends so she says) She is going with me to a concern sept 29 that she said she wants to go to.

said she wanted to be just friends in May
however didin't even see me on her bday (april)
may: i act like big emo fuck, cry all that cause the friends thing (my FAIL i know
gave no contact for 4 weeks

2 weeks ago we text, she calls that night we talk for 4 hrs seemed well
she then texts me happy 4th of july and we share text back n forth
i call her a week later and shes taking a shower, hits me up the next day "didint feel like talking can give me a call tonight if you like"
I call her she sounds busy with kids but still talks to me for 30 min

i text her monday "hey have a great day" "you to have a good one!"


she is sometime flirty with me, but i'm not sure if I should call this week? Just text? How Do i proceed here? and am i getting anywhere? This is more then we have talked for some time.

i dunno man. it looks to me like she treats you as a friend without any further action she would like to do.i cant see anywhere flirt with you or anything.but what we dont know is what you both were talking over the phone and how.anyway - dont give up if you like her and see how it goes

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I'll be real with you. It looks like she doesn't want to be anything more than friends..

I suggest letting her go man. If you stay friends with her, chances are she won't want to be anything more than that, and the whole situation will be hurting you..
I don't see how she can let it go that easy after 5 years though..but people change..and she changed. ;/

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thnks guys..

yah, i think your right... im going to have to learn to let go i guess.

From your discussion, it is clear that she likes you. Now its your ability, how you can impress her. Use some good pick up lines, spent more time, and try to meet again and again. And one thing, be confident,what ever you are doing.

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thanks man. Your 100% on staying confident, and thats exactly what I'm doing..

went to a concert last night with some friends and on FB someone tagged me with another girl. I got a real jealous e-mail this morning from the ex about how that girl "must have felt on top of the world, and knew she would get at me eventually"... lol

I guess it doesn't necessarily mean anything. But does feel good to not be the one jealous for a minute.

i think you still have a chance, especially if she got jealous over just a photo!

you have to think, she is at home with a child all the time, no hangin out with friends or guys. she is bound to be bored and horny.
i think first you just have to show her that you can be alot of fun! be one of those guys she wants to hang out with because you make her happy not just because there is a connection you know what i mean? especially if the connection is old!
just think of a way to make her life fun i say.... and that depends on how comfortable you guys are together. you have to work out what that is...
im in a similar situation and i hav been takin my ex surfing boxing rock climbing etc

ya your right man, and shes starting to warm up to me a lot more now.. Starting to get a lot more sexually flirtatious then she has been in quite a while. I dunno, at this point... if she wanted to get together I couldn't do it.. Been through to much to just feel better, I dont want to go through that hell again. So just going to take this real slow.