So...I'm single. Once again.

Lets go back in time two years ago, the last time I was single. I've always been in long term relationships up until this point. I read "The Game", a likely place for many that started. And got hooked. Hard.

I've always been great at reading people, being that I'm an actor, I have always been looking at people and watching them, reading them. But after I first watched Mystery's VH1 series, A light went off and it hasn't went out, it hasn't even faded, It just gets brighter and brighter with each passing day.

I started watching "keys to the VIP" just to watch the body language and see the do's and don't of the club scene. I started watching anything I could get my hands on with the words like; Body language, NLP, social intelligence, emotional intelligence, Intuition, Method etc.

I started watching nature documentaries just to relate the information to human form.

All the while, pushing past my fears and risking rejection. I was climbing high.

It is only through reflection, and through the awareness of this new found skill, that I have realized I have always been attractive to women. I don't say the following to boast, but rather, to pass on knowledge that I have come upon.

I am a very playful person, and usually do not have a problem talking to women. People sometimes think I am gay, for the reason that I have many hot girls as friends that I don't "Hit" on. I am very good looking, and highly intelligent. I have a "problem" that many on here wish they had. But only if they knew.

It was my lack of inner confidence in myself and my high standards, that I would not pursue many women. As I look back on the past, I have realized that so many were pursuing me, but I failed to realize it.

Then... I went for it.

My first time out, I rocked it. It took me three "sets" to find a target that I would 2 days later sleep with. Then others, this was all and all fun for a while until I met HER.

I did my "game" on her. And the rest is history. Two years of bliss.

To be quite honest, I was sleeping with another girl at the time who was more attractive to me at first glace. And before my second date with HER, i didn't think it would mean much.

But she was really one of a kind. A highly intelligent, sexy, caring, successful, funny, playful, sex vixen. We hit the height of the feeling that some people call love.

I know how this might sound to some of you, but.... I didn't want anyone else....at the time.

I told her how I picked her up as well as others. She didn't care. We would talk about human behavior together. It was wonderful.

But once you KNOW how to ride a Bike. You do NOT forget how to ride it.

I would see chances flash in front of my face, over and over and over again.

And it slowly started eating away at me of the "life" that was waiting on the other side. And slowly but surely it ended. I never cheated, but had a great deal of chances.

That's the problem, that everyone fails to realize. That once you become good. You always know. And you can't "help" but be that way. And once you see the game being played everywhere around you, and by knowing the rules, you are doomed to want another turn at throwing the dice.

Some want that life. I respect that. As long as you do it right. But some will get tired after a while, and I hope I'm wrong, but then it's too late.

Please...take time and have fun. Meet women.Respect them. And have lots of sex.

But when you find HER, let the game go...life is too short to be playing games. Why do you think Style ended up breaking up with the great girl he fell for at the end of "the game".

There is an old story...

A scorpion is at the edge of a pond. He realizes that he can't swim to other side. He asks the frog, "Frog, can you carry me to the other side by riding on your back?"
The Frog says, "How will I know that you will not sting me?" The scorpion replies, "Because if I sting you, I myself will die, for you will fall to the bottom, and I can not swim." The frog agrees with this logic. The scorpion walks over and hops on the frog, as the frog starts swimming to the other side of the pond. Wham! the scorpion stings the frog with his stinger. The frog in his last breath asks "Why did you sting me?!" to which the scorpion replies, "I guess it must be in my nature."

Saying that, I'm throwing the dice again and finding another HER. Playing the game one more time then fighting my best to breaking natures laws....and starting a new method.

more to come...

Angle Eyes

thats an awesome post. I was thinking abut what would happen if i was in a similar situation. i guess though if its really HER, then you'd more than happily give up the PU aspect of your life.. haha well i hope i'd be strong enough to give it up

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Is Keys to the VIP good? What would you recommend as good material to watch naturals?

"Keys to the VIP" is good so to the fact that it lets you watch body language. The "players" are everything from great to terrible. Mostly slightly above average, I say above because the "pressure" is on them to perform. Neither wants to be the "loser".
So their varying degree of "skill" is enhanced.

If you watch the conversations and interactions over and over again, you start to guess correctly that either a) they are doing well. b) they were doing poorly. c) they were doing well, then blew it. d) they started to be blowing it then they came through with decent results....by the end of the interaction.

Pay no attention to the "panel", they are quite funny sometimes, but offer varying degrees of "information". I think these guys, are probably well above the average guy, but who knows really, for you never see "them" perform. And most don't seem that naturally smart. Probably they are just naturals without teachable means.

But yes watch it.

hi angle eyes, i know exactly what u mean

last summer was when i really got into game, i wasnt great, but was improving particularly at night game, bu the end of the summer, each night out to a party i would usually end up with someone, and expect it too

then i met an attractive fun caring girl, started seeing her and eventually she ended up my gf. at first it was great, but after more and more nights out, there was this silly thought in my head "oh man i could be getting on so many girls right now, being the rockstar" or suming else ego related. in some ways this made me resent my gf, and soon we were no longer together. i guess part of me took her for granted fooling myself i was a huge player.

if i could choose to go back i would get back with her, took alot to realise her. but fuck it we all make our choices, and im young so wouldnt have lasted anyway, but defo glad u brought this up, when u find a girl u can call your gf happily, dont let your ego get in the way and tell u your sum big PUA, enjoy the relationship and appreciate it

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees

So... I sit at my desk drinking a beer nervous as fuck.

I've been invited to this girls birthday party tonight, and I'm leaving as soon as I finish this post and take a shower.

This is the first time I'm going out since the split between my ex and I. Just saying "ex" is something I need to get used to.

I met this girl, at an acting class that I've recently attended.

She is, and I say this bluntly, one of the top 3 most beautiful girls I have ever seen.

The reason I am nervous, is 1) She will be the ONLY person that I will know at the party. 2) well....that's about it.

So I text her this week saying...

Me: hey you wana come out sometime with me and a friend to a club... don't worry, I promise not to hit on you.

Girl: Yeah! Come to my birthday friday.

Me: How old are you turning?

Girl: 25

Me: So you're an oldie now...congrats How are you celebrating?

Girl: Having some friends over.

Me: Ok I'll let you know in the next day or two if I can make it...if I don't see you then, make this year the best yet!

(At this point I'm thinking that I'm not really going to go, UNLESS, she asks me again, by Friday (today))

Today

Girl: Come tonight!

Me: Possibly... where? what time? Are you staying at your house or are you going after... I can't make any promises.

Girl: My house 8pm then probably going to the (Bar).

Me: What's your address if I end up showing up... I need to know that (girl's last name)

Girl: (her address)
Girl (again): Come on Come!


So I sit here nervous as fuck still drinking my beer. This has to be so much harder than going to a club. I WILL ONLY KNOW HER. Fuck. I need to talk to her friends (guys first obviously) I have no idea how these people are. BUT FUCK IT!
THIS IS WHY I'M ALIVE GODDAMIT!!... to break down my fears and face them head on. What's the worst that could happen? Her friends don't like me. Screw them if that is the case. There is something in me that whenever I see a fear of mine, I HAVE TO OVERCOME IT, and make myself fearless! I"m......

HAHAHA...

She messaged me as I sit her

Girl: R U coming?

FUCK YA I'm coming! This is a new me, a stronger me, a better version of me, I"M A FIGHTER!

Me: I should be over at 930... is that cool?
Girl: Omg yes! I LOVE yOU!
Girl (again): I'm tipsy lol

wish me luck!

More to come...

Angle Eyes

At the end of the day, I'd rather have this skill then not have it.

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Sounds like hella interest dude! I'm interested to see how that turned out. And the nice thing about only knowing the birthday girl, is it confirms value as the guy outside the usual circle who was cool enough to be invited.

It's a little late for advice, but that sounds like a great chance to get friendly with the group right off the bat and not pay too much attention to the birthday girl at least til the bar. I hope you made some new friends and closed with your target!