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PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2011 10:12 am 
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hello,

I know this nice girl. I would rate her 4 or 5. She is about 20 years old.
I would not like to have a serious relationship with her and I would not like to disappoint her making her believe I want a serious relationship.

How can I try of find out if she is open to be friends with benefits? How can I fish for signs?

Thanks guys.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 2:20 pm 
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Hello, I would appreciate it if someone who was in similar situation gave me his opinion.

Thanks again


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:01 pm 
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Hey man,

Close her (if you haven't already), and if she asks you what you want from her afterwards, just tell her. Simple as that.

But, frankly, if she's only a 4 by your own standards, why even bother?


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:06 pm 
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Uh... I would definitely not do that! You need to be up front with this girl BEFORE having sex, since especially with less attractive girls, they will read too far into sex, and you'll end up with a nasty situation.Build up to it with heavy Kino and such, but before the clothes hit the ground, make sure she's aware this is not an invitation for a relationship.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:12 pm 
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I wrote a guide on how to manage expectations to create a FWB relationship: managing-expectations-for-fwb-relationship-vt84488.html


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:12 pm 
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Im New to this but the one line I always use that ive been out on a bad relationship

"I cant have something serious because ive had my heart broken by my ex, I just wanted you to know that Im not looking for something serious"

Worked for me 3times of 3 tries, it worked for me cuz its true i had my whole story to tell them. So they try to "help" me get over her, and every time they asked if i was ready for a relationship i would say no.

But as Naturesfoulchild said

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But, frankly, if she's only a 4 by your own standards, why even bother?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2011 2:55 am 
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I don't think it's worth all the complications, you don't even really seem that attracted to her.


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