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ok guys, i've yet to find the line between looking at life like nothing is a big deal when gaming girls, like the mystery method says, or not taking shit and having strong values, beliefs, standards, etc.
I don't know what to do when i hit LMR whether it be in a conversation or in the bed. should i act like nothing is a big deal and go about my day, or should i show them that i have better things to do in the first place, and make them see that they are gettin a prize, not me. i'm kinda confused on this whole topic. any clearance and guidance will be appreciated.
Hey Cornflakes. You gotta make a few distinctions here.
The objective of Mystery's nonchalant attitude towards life is to reduce nervousness and the pain of rejection. The objective of having strong values is to make yourself a stronger and more attractive man.
Hitting LMR is almost always a result of the girl not feeling comfortable enough to fuck you, and that is almost always due to you not being sincere with her. If you are 100% upfront and straigthforward with a woman, there will be no ambiguity when you take her to bed. It will either be a yes or no.
But if you do hit LMR, if you start acting like you have better things to do and that you are a prize, and acting like nothing is a big deal, then you're not being honest with yourself or with the girl. You most probably do think it's a big deal, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this. And if the girl smells even a hint of fakeness to your attitude, she will show even more resistance.
Try this: Next time you meet a girl, tell her upfront that you wanna fuck her. You don't need to use X-Rated language, but be clear from the beginning. This will give her no room for "Last Minute Resistance" because, if she does give you resistance, it will be "First Minute Resistance", something that most likely all girls will give you anyway, but if you persist, being Mode One (read Alan Roger Currie's Book), a lot of them will eventually say yes.
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