met hb 9 on wed. started txting all day thursday, a lot of fun flirty type talking abotu the night before, how she was trying to seduce me type. any time i do the role reversal though, she turns it around and again that i'm the seducer, can't tell if this is a good thing as she is pplaying along, or if she's not really buying the whole role reversal jokes. heres us picking up the convo again today.

me: your so busted! (credit someone i dont remember who)
her: why am i busted!?
(20 minutes pass)
her: sorry i was surfing, tell me why!!
me: i totally caught you hiding in my bushes peeking in my window!!
her: ha, and then you woke up wishing i really was stalking you!!
me: look, i understand you want this manliness but you can't me camping out in my bushes haha
her: haha please, i never chase, only replace. so you best be outside my bushes tonight, or you'll be long gone
me: you know you didnt have to stay in my bushes, i would have let you inside but i was afraid you'd seduce me haha
her: haha you mean you would've wanted me to seduce you. Or probably you would've seduced me, Mr Agressive

should i keep running with this? let me know

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i think your doing pretty good as is theres certain girls who play along with the role reversal and some who dont ya know not that thats a bad thing she just seems stubborn but playful and you can work on it i would not text her for a couple days see how badly she needs to text you or if she really is stubborn she wont text you at all but youve got nothing to lose thats a great IOI. but yea basically some girls dont get the whole role reversal but shes playful which is good and you can keep doing what your doing and i think youll be fine

thanks for the reply, ive actually turned it sexual now...

i ended up going with

me:you were the one who invited me to be outside your bushes tonight, but i like it clean shaven haha
her: hahaha good one
me: dont worry, i'll help you shave it
her: haha i'm a big girl, i keep it shaved on my own

i'm thinking something like
i knew we were gonna get along
wheres your favorite place to get kissed besides your lips, or your lips hah

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'i knew we were gonna get along'

That's good work right there dude. leave it at that.

well played well played ill second the comment above me

i've moved it plenty since then.

i went with
me: plus on in my book wheres your favorite place to be kissed? besides your lips? (and your lips ha)
her: my neck hahah, thats why it was pretty weird when you said that at the club what about you?

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me: hahah my chest while a girl is going down, are you a side of the neck, back of the neck or collar bone type of girl?
her: side of the neck, from the bottom to the top, then like nibbling on my ear and breathing hard into it hahah

i already know what i'm going to write, I'm pretty comfortbale when it gets to this kind of sexting, i'm gonna see if i can get her over tonight.
(her sister is visiting her and her dad so she can't chill during the day)

i will report back soon!!

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Dude, stop texting her and just get her on a date and close the deal. Shes clearly interested.

Yea don't text her to much she will lose interest close the deal and text her less often and you'll be good

(keep in mind her txts were responding within mintes, and mine were abot 40 minutes to respond for that purpose specifically)
i tried to get her out last night, but she wasn't able to (again with the sister thing)
but she works like five minutes from my house. so monday should i just have her come over for a movie night?
she's 20 so grabbing drinks is out of the question, but i have vodka and cranberry juice at my pad (her drink) so i was thinking grabbing a bite to eat at the pier then going back to my pad, or going striaght to my pad for movie, massage, lots of sex....let me know!?!

btw this girl is suuupppperrr fuckin chill so i plan on making this a regular thing until she leaves (end of the month)

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If shes comfortable going straight to your place for drinks then YES, that is DEFINITELY the best option. If shes not comfortable with that, then take her to get some ice cream, a quick bite to eat, maybe something else real quick and THEN take her back to your place. Feel her out.

urkel, you'll be gettin some points from me
thanks brother alright so this is where its gone since my last post.
so she stoped txting saturday night, i'm thinking its a bad sign so i'm a little paranoid (noob mentality)
i decide not to txt her untill later that night where i was meeting with a mpua that was speaking at my buddys house. so he's like yea dude your chill she likes you or she wouldnt be saying that.
alright so during his speech i get this txt from her

you could've just asked to come in instead of standing outside of my window on my balcony.. kind of creepy
(a joke from previous txts idk if i put them in here i'm to lazy to look)
so now i'm like fuck yea its on, and she reengaged instead of me.
Me: sorry, i mistoook your house for the hot blonde next door
(she's a brunette)
her: oh, let me just delete your number if you're into dumb bimbos?
me: haha whats your adress i'm coming over tonight.
her: hahaha totally with some family right now. I have to work at 7 in the morning
me: ok, what are you doing tuesday after work>
her: why, what do you have in mind?
me: its a surprise you have to tell me if your free first haha
her: haha well it depends what it is but yes, i'm free
me: no it doesn't, you'll be with me so you'll have fun
her: tell me!
her: tell me!
me: haha we'll meet up at 9, dress nice and bring a bikini, thats all you need to know
her: fuck that hahahah i so want to know now. Besides i neeed to know what i'm dressing for
me: haha your dressing up for me silly little girl
no txt...no txt... no txt...
her: how about we make this wednesday night and go back to hollywood again, plus you bring a friend and i will bring one not jumping straight in my bikini until we hang out one more time, just so i know your aren't a stalker

lol, ok...did this happen? so now she's back pedaling and i DID NOT see this coming. but that last sentence "one more time just so i know you aren't a stalker"
TRANSLATION: i want to fuck you, but i need to know i'm going to see you again.
side note: since the moment i met her i've kept a dominant, sexual frame so...

me: nope, tuesday is the only day i'm free. we'll meet up at my pad and go from there
her: so lame, but alright, i will see if i can make room for you in my schedule

lol, so that really did just happen then

me: i'll see you tuesday night, i'll hit you up that afternoon
her: sounds good

ok. so i got her to agree to come to my house tuesday night. i have a jacuzzi so thats the bikini sexual escalation phase. when she shows up should i just have her come in, watch a movie, have some drinks and go to the jacuzzi? should i still try to take her somewhere else first, than movie, jacuzzi?

thanks for your input

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the best way to play it once she gets to your place is drinks then watch a movie then jacuzzi start with drinks and talk to her a little bit use microescalation if you dont know what that is read 60 years of challenge ill put the link in here but you want her dying to jump in bed with you and the way you can do that is by creating some major sexual tension and attraction. do that by getting real close to her talking slow pausing and giving her deep deep eye contact you want to be able to cut the tension with a knife get her to the point of her having to talk because of the tension dont talk to much just give her eye contact and make her do the talkin watch stealth attraction to that will help a lot ill post that link too. but after you get drinks if you made her sexually attracted to you and you can tell jump in the jacuzzi skip the movie but if you feel like you need more time for microescalation watch the movie and kino the shit out of her


60 years of challenge: 60-years-of-challenge-vt74099.html


Stealth Attraction: stealth-attraction-entire-disk-2-vt60864.html

Any news about the ending of this story?

i am impressed with your texting skills, way to go, and you stand with the Tuesday date.
I will start slow, based in what she told you, but with determination in your goal (sex), if she enters the jacuzzi well... totally want it

Rockstar:

I agree mostly with what you said but if this pier is a quick walk away, why not? I 100% feel that the "Change Venue" aproach works well, It has for me. So within about half an hour she'll feel like she was on 2/3 different dates (drinks wearing something cute, Ice cream wearing something cute, Jacuzzi wardrobe change, then back to movie having changed again(unless something goes right in the Jacuzzi ))

If your worried about it thats what I would do/have done.

Tal

She ended up flaking that wednesday.
She said she had to work late, i just think there wasn't enough comfort. She invites me out the next night, i told her i was busy and i went out with some friend to a bar/club. guess who's there? haha so i ignore her and start opening sets and she walks by me a couple times at one point she actually sees me making out with another girl. very nice. finally as the night is coming to an end i see her talking to a guy. (i had never done an amog before) so i just went up to him acted like i knew him, put my arm around him and he says something like i'm sorry i'm not your friend.

She butts in "don't i know you?"
me: no, i'm Danny Boy nice to meet you
me: (to the guy) hey i'm gonna borrow your friend real quick
put my arm around her lower back and walk away.
I'm not gonna lie...i felt like a mother fucking pimp for pulling that off!!

so i tease her about flaking, she starts qualifying her self and within minutes were making out. we leave the outside bar area, and go inside, post up on this wall and she starts grinding her ass on me, she's a fucking amazing dancer.

no matter where i touch her she doesnt resist. she has to leave eventually and we make plans for sunday.

she txts me later that night inviting me out on friday too.

friday comes and because of some personal shit, i have to flake, but she starts telling me how her cousin is bithcing about her friend (this would have been a double date) and i use it as an excuse to eject and now i'm not the one flaking

sunday comes she flakes again!!! wtf.

it makes no sense because she's extrememly sexual and receptive with me, why wont she hang out one on one.

so we make plans for monday, if she flakes im done.
monday comes she sends me a txt saying bad news.
so i'm thinking of course she'd try to flake again but really she was playing a stupid game and she ends up coming over and admits later she did that on purpose...little fucker.

lots of heavy makiing out, she's dry humping the shit out of my cock, she's jerking me, and i'm fingering her...still no lay. wtf is going on with girl??

we make plans for wednesday. she comes over were talking laughing.
"i have to tell you something"
"ok..."
I dont want you to freak out, but i'm only 18"
lol..and thats why she was acting wierd.
but i'm 21, so its not that big of a difference. so after she tells me we laugh about it, start making out, start taking off clothes, and i finally closed!!

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