Hey Fellas,

It feels good to back in the field! I just got out of a relationship mainly because i still have to urge to have sex with as many beautiful women as possible (is there anything wrong with that?)

In the past, I was a big MM user. The material is awesome and definitely works (if you didnt already know) but lately Ive been hanging out with naturals that seem to get sexual attraction from every women they meet! They all use direct game and C/F banter all the time and their inner game is mind boggling. '

So heres my first PU using direct game (slightly).

Wednesday afternoon, Midtown NYC
I left the office to grab some Starbucks, no thought in my mind about picking up girls. Then, out the corner of my eye, I spot a beautiful tan skinned, perky boobed, bubble butt HB8 walking past and, they must have put tequila in my machiato because i had to talk to this girl!

I followed her down the block trying to keep in mind the 3 sec rule (which i failed). Finally she comes to a stop at the light and I opened:

Me: Hey, thats a cute bag. Where did you steal it from? (smile )

hb8: Steal? Dont you mean bought? (shes smiling)

Me: If that's what you call it these days (my attempt at humor)... I saw you walk past and i would be kicking myself if i didn't at least say hi (looking her in the eyes the whole time)

hb8: (shyly looks away with a huge smile on her face, then looks back and gives me her name) Hi, I'm Samantha

Me: I'm chickcrack (i told her my real name..duh). we should hang out sometime lets exchange numbers.

hb8: ok that sounds good (hand me her phone and I input my number. she then immediately text me)

Me: hope to see you soon

hb8: I hope so too (huge smile)

we go our separate ways. so far so good.

I get home and respond to her text from several hours ago. the ensuing text conversation was good (trust me, i will post it soon), i basically had it in the bag until i asked her out. then, IMO i must have came off as needy because i felt her starting to control the interaction.

My biggest sticking point is text / phone game. Any advice?

Please critique my day game. Any tips on instant dates? something help make day 2 an easy transition?

I'd rather get kicked in the balls than do extended text / phone game, not even kidding.

First off, you got the number close very fast and had little interaction- I'm relatively inexperienced with that, and can imagine that sending two or three texts to kind of 'extend' the interaction a bit would be beneficial. ("I talked to him for 20 seconds" vs "I talked to him for 20 seconds and we've been texting back and forth a bit" is quite a difference, while if you had talked for a good 5 to 10 minutes I feel like the difference would be a lot smaller.)

However, like I said in my opening line, text game is terrible (in my opinion). No physical contact, no sexual tension, no voice-tonalities or body language, all you're left with is your verbal game- and even if it's the best in the world it will not do the trick for you and will, if done too much, bleed out your chances. My general philosophy when it comes to any text or phone game after the initial meet is 'Get day2', nothing more than that- meet her again!

In your situation I would've probably send 2 texts to increase the comfort a bit, she has no idea who you are and if you're going to meet again she probably wants some unconscious questions answered, then call her- talk chitchat for 30 seconds to up the excitement a bit and within 2 or 3 minutes arrange a casual meet. (dealing with ALL THE LOGISTICS- too many times has the guy I wing for now and then told me he's got this date with a hot HB, only having it not happen because they hadn't dealt with the logistics yet.)

Let us know how it works out.
-ZeroValley

Hey zero valley,

Thanks for the advice. I called her today chit chatted ( no pua material just casual convo) and set up a day two at coffee house near my place.

When she picked up i kinda heard a sigh of relief in her voice. Maybe she was happy that all the texting was over haha.

As far as day 2, should my goal be comfort or kino escalation? What are some good routines to run?