Got her number, left her message a few days later. Short and to the point: "Saturday night call if you want to hang," and left my number. She doesn't call back after more than a week, (I almost forget all together). But I send a text "Can I ask you for some advice?" with the intention of following up with something like "Trying to find out if this woman I met is a complete flake," but within minutes of the text she Calls Me.

She said she's had a really busy week, blah, blah. I say "I can believe some of that,"

She takes the initiative and invites me for drinks at her regular bar hang out... says she will text me the night of with the place and time. I probably have never been to this place. (I've only been in town for six months..)

After I hang up, I realized I could be lured into a fire storm of her friends - or worse. This is the first date mind you. I have decent inner game, but in an unfamiliar setting and group I could get rattled or impatient and ruin the whole thing (especially if I am drinking, but hopefully can keep it under control).

Should I go in guns blazing and hope I pull it off? Is there a way to find out if she doesn't plan on a one-on-one? Should I change the venue on her or cancel? Thanks for reading -

Just ask her who's gonna be there. Then you could take some male friends to distract the obstacles, or just run the set yourself.

Be sure to open people in the bar, and generate good emotions.

Tell her that you're gunna only take a few shots, or drink a couple beers. So that she can't get you drunk and take advantage.

Just go, bring some friends to hang out with. Chances are most likely, she will be there with friends also.

If it's just her and her girlfriends, it will be a warm approach. Continue gaming.

It's there a lot of guys, you might be getting push into a orbiter. Best to start gaming other girls instead of lingering around. Be sure ask how they know each other. If the guy friend is someone really close like her cousin, close friends from high school, your good. If's some random guys she met or her co worker, there orbiters.