Alright so little background on me first. I was married for 5 years and it ended badly. It did a number on me good. Anyways I have been using OKCUPID and getting good results. Now I am just looking for quick hookups and maybe some NSA,FWB whatever you want to call it.

But Most girls don't put that they are looking for a dick, its probably just their anti-slut defense kicking in. So I open all the chicks I like on the site. The first girl I closed with said she was looking for "long-term relationship" and here profile made it look like she wanted a husband. Yet the first time we meet was me coming over at 2am and getting some. Then her asking me to climb out the bedroom window cause she didn't want her roomates knowing she was a booty call.

Anyways, to get to the point. I have been messaging this one girl recently and texting we got a date set up. In her profile she makes it dead clear she doesn't want a one night stand. And she has a kid which just makes me feel even worse if I am gonna hit it and quit it. Am I barking up the wrong tree?

How do you know if a girl is putting up her anti slut defense or if she is actually not a slut. Should I feel guilty for what I am doing?

And since my ex, I am scared to death of dating or being in a relationship. Last girl to ask me on a double-date(so she could show me off to her friend) I told her my phone was broke via facebook and never spoke to her again(that was 6 months ago). The iea of being in a relationship makes me feel like a tiger is 3 feet in front of me staring me down.

Karma's a bitch. That's all I know.

Most single moms are looking for long term, not many are looking for booty calls.
Its hard to tell really. In my experience if you hit the right buttons any girl will turn into a slut really. Saying that not all girls put up an anti slut shield as they are looking for a relationship but girls do need to get laid like us guys and if there are girls willing to hook up. And why should you feel guilty? Last time I check it takes two to have sex and you are more looking for sex and if they agree to it then whats the problem exactly?