Mack what said.

just give her space and she will eventually make her way back

^Combobreaker

^ Alpha-Counter

time will take control of time mate

I find what mack said as more of a cookie cutter response to these sort of situations....these things vary so much on the person, timing, past experience, etc..

What Impreza said.

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Altough, Mack gave a concrete and possible solution to the problem, so his reply remains good.

Not to jack the thread, but this is a little similar like my situation. My girlfriend is away for a month, understandably no sex, but then she tells me that she has a religious holiday coming up in august for a month, and no sex then too. That pisses me off a bit because I feel like I'm losing control in this relationship, any ideas on how I should handle this, guys?

no sex for a month because she won't be around?

or, no sex for a month because she is going to abstain for her religious reason?

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Religious reason, although it does make me angry, but I feel more like I'm losing control here

the situations vary.

the underlying themes are identical.



what you call "cookie cutter"

i call "clarity"

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By the way, just remember not to jump back to the same level of contact after she comes back. Keep it up in order to keep her.

Like many others have said before, the girl was either on the "dot" or she's just not into you anymore.

I've had this experience before and it turned out that she was interested in other men.

People in general are like monkeys when it comes to relationships. They swing around on vines but never fully let go of one vine until they have a firm grasp of another.

In this sense, she might just be getting tired of you while testing the vines of another man.

Your best bet is to confront her with how you feel and be open about how you feel and to what she says.

reeeeally?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

For a relationship to be strong, you have to have clarity. Just giving into what the girl demands, especially for what she demanded of him is a really strong shift in the relationship.

Bringing the topic up at least brings closure to the situation, which is you either work the situation out or you break up. Simple as that.