Long story but I'll try to make it as short as I can.

A couple months ago in school me and my buddy decided to go to one of the lounges we never go to just to chill for no reason. We were just chilling and this girl came in and yelled her number to her friend. She said it so loud it was hard not to hear it. So in good fun buddy told me to take it down and later send some funny texts to her. I took it down but I forgot about it until last month... I was cleaning my phone contacts and just saw "Chick from school".

I spontaneously sent a totallly random msg saying "Hey are you gonna be at the shop tomorrow? I will be dropping off my Ferrari"

I sent it not expecting any reply but supringsly she kept replying me. We kept talking and evenutally we established that we go to the same college and that the Ferrari is just a perk of my job (Which it actually is) and told me to add her up on FB.

Anyways she always reply my text msg's realllly slow, like we're talking about a couple hours to a day. But that doesn't matter, she's playing hard to get so whatever cause all her replies are Never short. They are decently long all the time.

So fast forward to my question, it's been over a month since we've been talking. She recently just came back from Hawaii and said she got me sand. Cool. However she ALWAYS say we should do things together ("OMG!! We should go running together" "We should go to the water park!!" "Awe I want to volunteer humane society with you".... Etc). SO I asked her to pick a day and I'll pick what we will do but she doesn't respond me back.

Her most recent wall post was something like this " PS i need a workout buddy too!! Tennis soon?? =) water park??? "

And I responded "Soon as in this week! Pick one of the 3 and I'll pick a day. Unless you want it the other way around "

But no reply. However she sent me a text the next morning asking how was my trip to Calgary.

What do you guys think I should do? Do you think she is just looking for attention? I figure it's alittle bit of too much work just for attention (Over a month now). So maybe she's just still playing hard to get. She HAS to have some attraction/interest towards me in order to keep talking to me for this long and say she wants to do all this stuff with me regardless of attention or not.

My own solution was to just stop talking and messaging her for abit. I don't want to seem to clingy. She wants to play games with me so I will play her game back at her. Right now she's in control of the whole situation so I need to change that around.

If you guys should give me some advice on this situation or tactics I could use it'd be great! I know I could just forget about her but I want to see how far I can push this.

Thanks!

Not sure what you should do now, but In my opinion you probably should have been more dominating (everyone wants to be lead).

You could have said. "Running, Tuesday, 5pm, I'll be going to (Name of location) and back".

Then she if she tags along...

^^This.

Don't offer options, just tell her what you're gonna do!

Dude, great effort but you need to use some David Deangelo Cocky Funny Techniques

Use this, This came of the top of my head one day, and it worked like a charm

I met this two set, and number closed one of them, she had a bf, but I still thought it would be good practice, well she and her friend needed the bathroom, but me and my friends had to meet up with other people, so this is what happened

Her: " Can you wait for us while we go to the bathroom "

Me: " Well, we have have to go, to meet up with some friends "

Her: " Will we see you again soon ? "

Me: " Maybe, if you lucky enough to "

Her: " Your really cocky, I like it "

Me: " I know, now go to the bathroom, and be quick "

Then I told them where we were going to be, and 5 mins later they came back and basically surrounded me for the rest of the night, laughing and playing along when i was busting their balls

So next time she says " We should go to some such place " You reply with

" I might go with you, if your lucky " or " I might go with you, if you deserve it "

Try it, it works like a charm

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden

Thanks for the comments guys!

I haven't talked to her since Monday. I don't know if I should message her or not. I want to wait for her to message me 1st but not sure if that's gonna happen. Kinda tempting haha.

I want to just wait it out BUT I'm afraid I will lose the momentum and she will get disinterested. Which could also be a case right now.

Ive dealt with chicks like her and all in all she seems like a flake... She knows what shes doing and its only wasting your time. Next time you text her tell her "im going to (wherever) tonight for a drink meet me there." Either she will go with it or she'll send a flaky message (like usual) and if she does seem flaky just reply with something like "shut up and lets get it on." basically just go for it very directly as this will either get her or have her stop wasting your time. Goodluck

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Your not getting rejected, you seeing if she has good taste.

Just go straight for it and pick a day. She might be embarrassed by how she looks or something, and be nervous about the meet up. If you set a date she'll either accept or decline and the game playing is over.

Thanks for the response again guys!

I honestly don't know what I should do now.

I was thinking she COULD be shy... But definitely not embarassed about her looks because she models.

I DID thought about waiting it out and keep pushing (Might even go into friend zone) It is not a problem to go into friend zone for me, I just need to see her in person, once I see her in person I can easily change that. OR just forget about it for now and not talk to her anymore till college starts at like September and I'll reinitate with some opener.

Cause once school starts it's that much easier for me to see meet up with her somehow without her flaking.

Opinions?

well you played a game with her by getting her number without her knowing. so she is playing a game with you. you should text a pic of you out doing something fun. then the next day invite her to join you in some plans. if she doesn't go for it give her the silent SPAM for a while, until you run into her in person. then just act friendly.