About to be 26 in September and coming off a 2 year office relationship with an LSE woman that ended poorly about 2 months ago. Getting my feet wet again i could definitely use some pointers..

I've never had a problem opening/approaching, copping numbers, and initial follow-up is always flawless (IMO). I remember being in high-school where it was sooooo RIDICULOUSLY easy to have your pick of girls and closing was never an issue. College was a little bit tougher, but still managed through the years and wound up in a few MLTR's that were great for sex.

What i've been running into recently is a TON of LMR; My most prime recent example is below:

Met this girl (21) outside of a dive bar last Thursday, she was tuned up pretty good but conscious enough to know what she was doing. She was getting hit on by some AFC that looked like Charles Manson HA! She asked me for a light for her cig; cute as all hell i said "sure" She was dancing on me so i went with it. She asked me if i surfed or skated, told her "Nah" i ride dirt bikes and wheel big trucks in the woods.."Hottt" was the response..Definitely a lot of IOI's, she was getting closer and closer to me so i went in for the kill after meeting her for 5 minutes, she said she doesn't make out in public, so i took her to the side of the building and went to town. Used some good kino and was able start getting my hands where i wanted and she was doing the same

She wanted to burn..i told her my place is right around the corner lets go. Whole walk she's talking about how she likes to f*ck and blah blah blahhhh...We get back, making out hard/touching etc, her friends start calling saying they had to go, i dont get it in, we go back to bar, cop her number make out some more..I tell her she prob wont hit me up jokingly, she grabs and kisses me and says "you're a hot make out i'm definitely hittng you up"

Her phone was off she told me, so i texted her:

Me: Its Pete, thanks for the hot make out sesh get at me this weekend

All of friday goes by and i don't hear from her, no worries not even sweating it.

Saturday around 5:30 comes and she hits me up:

HB8: Hiiii....whatcha doin tonight?

I dont answer immediately to come off as needy or desperate, gave it 2 1/2 hours.

Me: Ha what up you sexy lil thing? No plans might head to beachbar in **** for drinks in a few, lets get up what you got goin?

HB8: Idk yet...im just laying down right now bout to hop in the showaaa

Me: Hottt we're tryin to figure shit out over here...got mangled in **** last night n still hurtin ha...lemme whatsgoood

I never hear back from her, some good time has passed and I'm out with my buddies getting annihilated haha, i decide to text her (wrong move probably):

Me: Come to beachbar in **** kid

No response, few hours later i put one more drunk text through (bad idea on my part HA)

Me: ummm im housed n you should come burn this L wit me..


Nothing...i know she was just some bar slut, but i was lookin to get it in.. I have a feeling the LMR stems back to my 2nd or 3rd text to her, I know i should have had something definitive in play for the night and i didnt....

Anyones thoughts would be much appreciated on this, or just simply on my overall situation right now would be great too. Looking forward to see a few responses...