Hey all, hope you are well.

I was hoping for a little advice about bridging the gap between online chat to a meet-up.

I have read the sticky at the top of the online sarging forum: 'online direct to date', whilst very useful, it doesn't seem totally applicable to my situation, as I've been gaming a girl over Facebook, so it's not really a complete given that us meeting up is going to happen. She's also 18 and is considered to be a bit of a prude by some, so I've had to tiptoe a little; focusing on building comfort and going easy on the negs.

Anyway, despite that, I think it's definitely time I asked her out on a date. How do you think its best to approach this? Obviously I'd like her to say yes and not to flake if she does. With that in mind, do you think it would be better to take control and suggest what we do, or just suggest that we do something and discuss it with her?

Normally, i'd just take the reigns with a girl and make the decisions et cetera, but I'm a little hesitant given that I haven't actually met this girl in person, and as I say, she's a little reserved and prudish.

Anyway, any advice on how to pull it off would be really appreciated, if I get the date it's all good, I know what I'm doing; but I'm just not experienced at this particular aspect of gaming.

Thanks all.