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I've known this russian girl for about 3 years now and initally i was quite attracted to her and i got some IOIs back. I think I messed up by showing that I was too interested in her from the begining so since then we've just been friends.
Thing is that sometimes she shows interest and there have been occasions where we have been holding hands, i've been stroking her etc... and it doesnt fee like we're just being friendly to each other.
She's a bit of a nutjob and sees a psychologist, i know loads about her problems and shes quite insecure about herself. I've never known her to have a boyfriend since ive known her and i suspect she might be bi-sexual.
Thing is i know we'll never have a relationship, in fact i don't like her as a gf, i just want to fuck her.
She quite often flakes when she goes through one of her depressive phases, i quite often have to freeze her out when shes acting up. Yesterday she sent me 3 texts, clearly wanting to meet up again. 2 of them were some deep philosophical messages
what should my general stretgy be here to keep control of the situation and to escalte attraction?
Haha totally reminds me about one of my bestfriends. In short; I liked her and went total AFC on that shit. She is a bit crazy too.
I don't want to have a relationship with her but at times I just want to fuck her.
My best advice to you is to forget about this fantasy and accept that she is your friend. From what you told about her, my guess is that this will fuck up your relationship with her if you have sex with her. If she is a ''nutjob'', then she won't have a one night stand with you and let everything go back to normal.
However if you still want to fuck this broad, we are here to help
The reason you enter the FZ is because you build too much comfort with a girl. She becomes too comfortable with you and just wants you as a friend. So now you need to build more attraction instead of comfort. Adam Lyons posted a video video about this on youtube. Just check his youtube account
I once wanted to game my best friend and started laying down some ground work.
- For example a lot of times when she called me I did not pick up the phone just so she would wonder what I was doing.
- I started being cocky/funny towards her. I also negged her ofc but if your friend has low self esteem or a depression problem then you should not neg as much.
- Trying as much as I could to display my alpha attitude.
- Pre selection. Date other girls. Nuff said.
I started receiving flirting and some IOI's from her but decided to stop. As gay as this sounds I wanted to have her as a friend instead of a one night stand.
Just consider the pros and cons of being her friend and the pros and cons of having sex with her one time.
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