I'm currently deployed right now, and i've been gettin to know this girl that works up at my building. she comes over whenever i ask, gets me whatever i ask, and jokes at work about getting together and makes moves like playing with my hair, rubbing her hand on my face like she's trying to pull me in for a kiss...etc. She came over the other night and we spent 2 hrs messaging each other and kissin each others neck, but before she left, she just asked that i never try to kiss her on her lips, my guess is b/c she won't be able to resist it.

everyday she gives me more and more IOI's, and i keep coming up with more and more ways to make her laugh, be comfortable around me, hell she can't even walk into a room without coming over and sitting beside me and flirting, and she's openly said that she's attracted to me, and that she finds me more and more attractive everytime she sees me.

my question would be, is it just me or does this chick want me to make a move? and she has bf, so how should i go about doing it and still not look like i'm just out for ass and i'm trying to steal her away f/ her bf? any input would be great fellas.

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She doesn't want to be kissed on the lips because she might feel guilty over the fact that she has a boyfriend.

But she obviously likes you A LOT.

If you don't have a problem with taking girls away from their boyfriends - then kiss her. If she starts hesitating slightly, tell her you can't resist it anymore.

^Just go for it in whichever way you'd normally do it.

And if you would feel bad about breaking those two lovebirds up (lol), then simply keep flirting the way you've been doing so far and wait for something to magically break those two up.

Who knows, she might do it herself because she likes you more than him.

Point is, yes - she likes you big time. And yes, if you like her back - do something about it. It's way more simple than you're making it.

haha, yea i suppose you are pointin out the truth. it's way more simple that i'm makin it to be. I have no problem taking girls away f/ their bfs, as long as they want to do it.

i'm going to keep flirting like i've been, and wait til i get back to a point that i know she can't resist a kiss. i've been at that point acouple times, so i know it's feasible, and i know she wants it...i'll update when i get either smacked, an earful of guilt-venting, or score.


thanks!

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so i went for it...actually to be more exact i started to go for it and she finished it.

we had fun for acouple of hours, she didn't seem to have any second thoughts and we kept fooling around until she left. this mornin i came in and kissed her, she had a huge smile, and i went about my business....

but now the guilt is setting in. i'm tryin to tell her that since she wants to kiss, and she wants to have the lust, then why does she still want her bf? i mean, i'm a dude, so when i find a female that i find more attractive than the one i'm currently with, i leave and go to the more attractive one.

she says that she has feeling but regardless of her feelings, she has a b/f. i told her i'm not instigating, but if she has feelings for me, why does she still have the bf?


answers and chime-ins are welcome. mainly just ventin. thanks y'all

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My man I don't know what exactly you see in this girl, but I hope that the red flag is visible to you. It's staring you in the eye and waving like crazy.

She is no girlfriend material.

Why is she with her bf? Because she tells him the same bullshit she tells you. Who knows, she might even have a third or fourth guy on the side.

You are being played - and so is the boyfriend.

If she did this to him, what makes you think she won't do it to you once you're in a relationship? Because you're 'special' to her? Just saying, she got you wrapped around her finger.

i can see where you are gettin that from. i'm cuttin it off b/c on top of everything else, it's a damn pain in the ass to act "proper" around this girl. fuck it, i'm goin back to bein me. what the hell was i thinkin?


how do i rep you little panda?

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Lttle Panda is right. Two days ago I F/closed a HB with a bf. He is out of state working for the summer. I Spent the night In Her bed and the next day took her to the airport so she could fly out and stay with him for 8 days.
He is getting played, and If They broke up i would stay away cause She has loyalty Problems. If you r just looking to hook up then hook up. But i wouldnt Try for a relationship.
Have Fun Man![/quote]

i hear ya bmaxwe. if she'll do it for you, she'll do it to you....true story.

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