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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 3:14 pm 
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Being only 18 years old when I tell people that I have already slept with 20 girls most people instantly say bull shit. While I must say it is a lot easier for a younger guy like me to hit on and close with girls who are my age and sometimes older. (My current girlfriend will be 20 in September) Going back to the almost childish youthful ways of high school is one of the best ways I feel to attract energetic excitable girls. I'm a tennis player and most of my friends are big muscular rugby guys (why we hang out I don't know probably so when I say something to someones woman I don't get my ass kicked). I was tired of always being the little guy to get pushed around by these big jocks. I though I was good looking and wasn't understanding why I didn't have any success even getting my first real kiss. As a got older and more mature I realized that I had to come up with my own formula for attracting women and closing. We all know that we want what we cant have. It is a simple fact of human nature. I know I can't, and probably will never, have the porn stars I found on various websites yet I still found myself going back to them over and over again. I had no problem introducing myself to people regardless of what social click they fit in and I was able to relate myself to them but I could never close (If a 17 year old kid going out and hitting on girls is a problem with you sorry). But I will stop rambling because this is my first post and want to be taken seriously and will get to the point. Please feel free to comment, criticize, or give advice to the plan I am employing.

After meeting with a girl/woman I instantly work to learn what she likes, doesn't like, and etc. While I hear a lot of guys say using small talk is lame in picking up girls it is the perfect way, I feel at least, to find ways to connect yourself to a particular girl. While wearing floral print shirts and leather blazers may be flattering I was always more into what I call the "James Bond Seduction Technique". Sure some people say the nice guy wont finish first but I beg to differ. While my technique may only work on campus I want to see if it actually would work in a wider range of PUA's. Please feel free to be as brutally honest as possible I am open to all sorts of criticism.

"JBST"
1) Once a target is selected move into her view, not necessarily directly in front of her but maybe have you and your wing shift your position and have a fun and enjoyable conversation that she can notice.

2) After you have her attention making eye contact is something I like to do here. Not the deer in headlights eyes one needs to make the best "I'm going to....." you know eyes. A seductive stare can send chills down a girls spine especially if done in a non-chellant way.

3) Then once you have had eye sex with your target I would suggest ignoring her for a good amount of time then re-initiating contact with her. (I have no set plan for how to do this specifically I just normally introduce myself and say something coy like "I saw you earlier where have you been?")

4) Depending on the response (Cant win them all) you can go two ways from here. Either go in for the one night close or my personal favorite......make her wait, not a couple minutes or hours, im talking days or even weeks. Patience is a virtue even for someone trying to mack as many women as possible before they die.

Feel free to tell me that this post totally sucked and I should go back to watching free porn, I'm trying to learn as much as I can to carve my game into something extravicant and feedback is awesome. If you read the whole thing I seriously want to shake your hand haha!

-Smokin'


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2011 12:44 pm 
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Being only 18 years old when I tell people that I have already slept with 20 girls most people instantly say bull shit. While I must say it is a lot easier for a younger guy like me to hit on and close with girls who are my age and sometimes older. (My current girlfriend will be 20 in September) Going back to the almost childish youthful ways of high school is one of the best ways I feel to attract energetic excitable girls. I'm a tennis player and most of my friends are big muscular rugby guys (why we hang out I don't know probably so when I say something to someones woman I don't get my ass kicked). I was tired of always being the little guy to get pushed around by these big jocks. I though I was good looking and wasn't understanding why I didn't have any success even getting my first real kiss. As a got older and more mature I realized that I had to come up with my own formula for attracting women and closing. We all know that we want what we cant have. It is a simple fact of human nature. I know I can't, and probably will never, have the porn stars I found on various websites yet I still found myself going back to them over and over again. I had no problem introducing myself to people regardless of what social click they fit in and I was able to relate myself to them but I could never close (If a 17 year old kid going out and hitting on girls is a problem with you sorry). But I will stop rambling because this is my first post and want to be taken seriously and will get to the point. Please feel free to comment, criticize, or give advice to the plan I am employing.

After meeting with a girl/woman I instantly work to learn what she likes, doesn't like, and etc. While I hear a lot of guys say using small talk is lame in picking up girls it is the perfect way, I feel at least, to find ways to connect yourself to a particular girl. While wearing floral print shirts and leather blazers may be flattering I was always more into what I call the "James Bond Seduction Technique". Sure some people say the nice guy wont finish first but I beg to differ. While my technique may only work on campus I want to see if it actually would work in a wider range of PUA's. Please feel free to be as brutally honest as possible I am open to all sorts of criticism.

"JBST"
1) Once a target is selected move into her view, not necessarily directly in front of her but maybe have you and your wing shift your position and have a fun and enjoyable conversation that she can notice.

2) After you have her attention making eye contact is something I like to do here. Not the deer in headlights eyes one needs to make the best "I'm going to....." you know eyes. A seductive stare can send chills down a girls spine especially if done in a non-chellant way.

3) Then once you have had eye sex with your target I would suggest ignoring her for a good amount of time then re-initiating contact with her. (I have no set plan for how to do this specifically I just normally introduce myself and say something coy like "I saw you earlier where have you been?")

4) Depending on the response (Cant win them all) you can go two ways from here. Either go in for the one night close or my personal favorite......make her wait, not a couple minutes or hours, im talking days or even weeks. Patience is a virtue even for someone trying to mack as many women as possible before they die.

Feel free to tell me that this post totally sucked and I should go back to watching free porn, I'm trying to learn as much as I can to carve my game into something extravicant and feedback is awesome. If you read the whole thing I seriously want to shake your hand haha!

-Smokin'
i read it but kinda cringed and took nothing from it. Its your first post, i think you should introduce yourself first and have a read around at whats already on here, before you try to make up a signature technique which is simply stock communication skills. Nothing that you said there is new to be a "technique" and its all covered in many many different pickup books and general knowledge of seduction.

Welcome anyway. I hope you can learn a bit and reach your goals:)

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 7:26 pm 
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i like it man. i think you're on a different track with the nice guy approach. almost seems like you're trying to go in under the radar. i'm in for updates, interested in where this goes.....

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 04, 2011 1:25 am 
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Ignore the haters, you get results with your personal style and that's all that matters.

Please explain your method in more detail. I'll point out some places where I was confused. I'm going to sum up your post in newbie terms and then put questions I have in parenthesis.

-Have her notice a fun conversation you are in (so you run social circle game, and you mentioned a wing, so do you only run night game? If you have F-closed cold approaches during the day, please explain how you do this.

-eye contact

-You purposely ignore her, teasing her, and go about your business.

-You open her later, she already knows of your interest, you don't have to go through the awkward opening many suffer with.

(Now, you say you either one night stand her or delay for quite a long time. Please go into depth with both of these. What is your method for getting a one night stand? Do you make alot of small talk like you said earlier? Escalate fast? Explain.

And with the slower method, how are you keeping her interest up? I know with me, if I hit on a chick, and then didn't talk to her for a month, she'd forget I existed, and I'd either get friend zoned for not acting or I'd have to start all over again with the seduction. Explain how you do this long term seduction)


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