Hmmm,

I find it kind of strange that my silent musings and random searches landed me here. I initially searched something along the lines of 'tips for talking to people' because I'm super lame like that ;] And found the blog of a FPUA(wooo I know some terminology). The more I read, the more I was intrigued and started looking into the seduction community and it eventually led me here. This site seems to be male oriented, but I lurked a couple of the female introductions to see if any girls had joined for one, and then if anyone posted any resources for them. I found a couple, and they're all wonderful tips- in theory but I'm hoping I can read some of the men's resources and maybe try to flip them to my advantage.

So a little about me. I'd maybe classify myself as a 7/8 but that's me being vain, I'd have to find someone to give me an honest opinion sometime from a male perspective. Ironically, most of my associates (I consider very few people true friends) are male. You'd think they'd be able to give me adequate advice but no, I usually get "Just go up to him and tell him you want to fuck, he's yours." I just turned 21 not too long ago and after a wild-child 12-15 year old phase I quieted down and focused on school and lost a lot of my social skills. I'm extremely nervous when it comes to going out. I find the approach the most difficult part, it's going to be something I'm going to have to just force myself to do over and over again until I get more comfortable with it. The reason why I'm looking to become an aspiring FPUA is because I want to be social, I'd love to network and I feel like I'm missing a huge part of my life. This is supposed to be the time when I'm running off with friends to the beach, going out and having a blast every weekend, living it up with my peers you know? And right now my life pretty much consists of chilling at home watching Romero movies until I fall asleep on a friday night =/

I'm looking for tips and advice that leans a bit more towards natural, I know I have a good head on my shoulders and I'm a very easy going chick. All my guy friends that know me seem to tell me so (but I also realize that even though I have this delusion that our friendships are so platonic, they probably want to nail me anyway). I don't like to sleep around but hell, I'd like to at least have the option to you know?

Anyway, I think I'm going to enjoy it here, there's tons of stuff to read and when I get a chance to sit down after I get some sleep, I'll definitely be back.

-Tarea.

I think it's great to have female members on this forum!

Sharing opinions from the eyes of the opposite sex is a great way to learn from each other.

I'm really looking forward to reading your posts and good luck!

Thanks I'm looking forward to it as well! I'm already learning quite a bit. I can't wait to test it out this weekend- hell maybe I'll even just go to the gym and try it too!

Have you looked into any books yet? Anyways, looking forward to your first field report then. Have fun!

Superflirt by Tracy Cox. Other than that no. It focuses a lot on body language, making a good first impression, etc. It's helping me with the fact that I need to dumb down my vocabulary a little bit when texting. Adopt the same vocabulary as my "victim" lol. That was always a mistake I've noticed in the past, I'd text something and they'd be like "What's that mean?" *facepalm*

Welcome! There is actually a female subsection which is currently private, I'm sure one of the moderators will give you access rights. And stop by the chat sometimes, me and a couple of girls hang there from time to time

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

For sure! I'll ask one of them if I see one online thanks for the welcome!

I am pleased to say, you now have access to the private women's section.

It's called "Zip's lounge" and you should now be able to see it at the bottom of the forum. Say hi in there, they are all friendly!

If for whatever reason you an't see it or something, just send me a PM