dude do you at least understand what your doing wrong?

one of the biggest parts of become better at picking up is understanding what your doing wrong and learning from it.

I hope its just because its one-itise, and your stories were really entertaining.

deffs freeze her out...forever. move on.

When ever I'm having trouble getting over a girl I sleep with other girls. it helps a lot. trust me. the more you fclose the easier it is to move on haha.

I guess I'm too needy?

But it's hard for me, man.

When we were in high-school together, she liked ME. I didn't even see her standing (literally, she was HB7). My friends were like: Go get her!

So I just thought: "What is the worst that can happen if I only screen her?"

WELL LADIES AND GENTLEMEN HERE YOU HAVE IT.

I got to like her... A lot. Not like a HOT fuckbuddy, but like a cute little girl, cuz she is, who I wanna spend the rest of my life with. But I was an AFC and ofcourse I started to act like it after a while. We had A LOT of fights, arguing all day long.

So now the tides have turned. She dumped me and I wanna get her back.
It's like my ego doesn't even exist, which isn't good if I ever wanna be a PUA.
It's just that I think of all the lovely times we've had, and just want it back.

Currently she doesn't wanna talk to me, so I guess texting her isn't a good choice.
I don't think she is gonna text me, so I guess I'll have to move on.

I am gonna run into her some day, the only question I have is: How am I gonna act when I meet her, after what she did? (previous post)

It's over man. I don't want to be mean but you are making yourself look pathetic to her. Just forget women for a while and learn to be comfortable with yourself and being single. Cut off all ties with her. Delete her fb, number, everything. If she contacts you don't even read it. Just move on. If she wants you back she will make it very obvious. Watch the movie Swingers. It will give you a different perspective. Plus why would you want to be with a girl that doesn't want to be with you? If she suddenly said 'yes, let's be together' what would you think? I know I would think that you pressured her into it. Keep yourself busy but do not contact her. Easier said than done but move on. Everyone here knows it's time. She's not worth it. No girl is worth driving yourself crazy over. Love yourself not her because she loves herself and not you. Goodluck

Yeah I know that...
Lol and I always thought when you both are virgin and do it, it will always remain.
But NOOO.

But a big question:

Should you put your ego aside?
I've read that your ego should be put aside, because it only holds you down.

She didn't want to talk to me, sent me home by her stepfather. Is that something to be mad for? So that when I run into her again, I could act like I don't even see her, but that's lame. Maybe I should go like: Hey how u doing? Well okay got to go, byebye.

Or I should act like I didn't even care about being sent home. So that when I run into her, I'll just be myself and act nice to her. I don't think she deserves it, but that's what I read about putting your ego aside.

So what does anyone here think about my ego-dilemma?

i hope i am not too late on this:

1.- TO GET A GIRL YOU NEED TO BE WILLING TO LOSE A GIRL...

2.-Once you break up with anybody never ever get back with them unless ( a week or a month or less break up, or a bs break up), the reason is you will eventually break up for the same reason you broke up in the first place


3.- A bunch of people specially guys afcs and girls afcs fake they do not care, but they telegraph that they care and are caught in the bluff... HAPPENS all the time my phone smoking with girls and guys calling me with this problem.

4.- You are still and afc, reading a book does not make you a pua...


5.- if you are asking in a forum advise about a girl, means you lose the girl, she ain't in any forum or asking her friends for advise to get you back...


6.-NEXT...too many women out there you have oneitis..

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Well yeah, you're too late lol.
And I now know all the shit, it comes down into just being a man, and believing in yourself.

But it doesn't changes the situation between me and her.
She has humiliated me, she just laughed and said that someone else should open.
If I run into her, should I ignore her or should I go talk to her?

(Personally I think I should just only say "hi" in a not caring way, but is it better to just be friendly again?)

first, you need to forgive her, in your head, and your soul, and hope for the best for her, if you want revenge it will only destroy you not her... Step 1, number 2 if you ever see her, i doubt it will happen, either leave the place(recommended), or ignore her and act normal(super hard to do cause you will have butterflies), or be with other girls(be careful she may catch you bluffing that you are with other girls to make her jealous)...

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Man your overthinking this. To be honest if you ever want to have a 1% chance of getting her back you just have to act normal. Theres nothing you can do to get her back she will choose if she wants to get back with you and hopefully by that time you will have moved on. But use this time to learn what you messed up with and improve hit the gym hang with friends... live your life. Shes not worth it or you wouldnt be in this situation. I went through all the same bs. You win some you lose some.

mr e is right, but if she ever change her mind and wants you back, make her work for it and i mean work for it, you do not want to reward back behavior, but i would not get back with her...

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"If someone smacks you in the face, would you act normal towards that person?"

This was one of her thousand retorical questions.
And the fun part is, that she eventually does that to me.
I must admit, she has forgiven me a lot.
But on the other hand, she broke my heart. (which now doesn't really matter, i'm over her)

But I think, thanks to you guys, when I run into her again, I'll just say "Hi".
(She lives 200 meter from my house, so I AM gonna run into her again)

I won't be nice, because she doesn't deserve nice, but if she acts nice, maybe my mood will flip to being nice too. And I don't think that's good, because she then controls me again.
So I'll just stick with the "Hi" and act like I don't really care.
I think it's the best.

But i as i said before you can not act, you got a be real, cause if you act, she will know you are acting, and will know is shit tests...Women are really good at sensing stuff...For example, you may act like you do not care, but body language, facial expressions may say you care... So be careful.

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Hmm deep shit...
It's true that women sense your mindstate, it's like you have an area of effect of brainwaves that the woman receives, without receiving any waves back.

But anyway, PUA says that you shouldn't worry about women.
That's a real man's quality.
And that is what I (and most people here) want.

If I go and say that what she did was low, she will think that I still care about it and know that I still care about her.
You want what you can't have.

And ofcourse, I want her to like me again, so that I can reject her, or train her like a dog. (so that I finally have the upper hand)

OMG!

Well, a few weeks ago I ran into her, in the bus.
Both said hi, she asked what school I'm going to. Just answered the question and just said byebye.

And then, a few days ago, I 'ran' into her again in the bus.
I was already on the bus, 3 stops later she entered the bus, and sat in the front, while I was in the back. Our faces were in the opposite direction, so eye contact was possible.

I just did the pretty boy pose, looking outside through the window. Then when we were almost at the final stop, I looked at her. She didn't look the first time, was busy with her iPod. But after a little while we made eye contact for one second. I quickly broke it, and smirked, looking outside again. She probably saw the smirk .

She then took the other exit of the bus, so we didn't ran into each other. But I thought it was a bit strange to not communicate even though we saw each other.

So I texted her: "haha she's fucking me with her eyesss" (from a song I once introduced to her)
She texted back: "haha and still you act cool and kept walking"
I texted back: "well, if I was socially retarded, I would've took the socially retarded exit too..."
She texted back: "you have got a lot of things to learn in life" (something funny we used to say it alot 'back in the days'.

I always feel like when I send the last text, and get no reply, she gets the upper hand.
So I didn't send more texts.

I feel like I can get a lot better than this girl, she's an HB 6.5 or something, but I still love her personality, its just so sweet...

She has crushed and stomped on my heart half a year ago, but I was a total AFC then.
(read the whole topic)
Last time, although it is half a year ago, she laughed and let someone else tell me to go away.
Every time I think about that situation, I don't even want her. Ofcourse I know why she didn't want to talk to me, but it still destroyed me. And I feel like a loser to talk to her again after she dissed me so hard.
So I really want to say to her is that she has to apologize for that last action of her, before I can normally talk to her again. But on the other hand, is that a smart thing to do? It then seems like I really cared about that situation, what I don't want, because ALPHA's don't care...

Think I should try it again with her, now I know PUA? And let her apologize?

Ok , look. I know it's cliche and you heard it a million times on this thread alone but dude , there a 123123123 billion girls out there. MAYBE SOMEONE ELSE ?

Look , in long relationships like yours with her when you fight all day long and all that shit some lines ARE crossed. And once you cross those SPECIFIC lines you can't ever , and I mean this in the most serious way , EVER go back.

This is one of those lines .
You're relationship with her is done. Move on , get some girls , sleep with them. It's the best way to remind yourself that the world doesn't spin around oneitis.

And anyway , there's WAY to much negative energy / tention between to two of you even now. Seriously bro..it just won't work , trust me.

My best friend is in your exact same sitituation and I had the same discussion today with him. I've been there, I KNOW how hard it is. You gotta be stronger than that man. Like I said , it all comes down to you realizing that yo world doesn't spin around her EVEN IF it seems it does.

why look away when she looks at you?
I think in PUA terms it lowers your value or something (i'm not really a literature fanboy)

but really, can we move on to the next one?