I've been working so much on my body language and being an ALPHA MALE inside and out that people (including family) are starting to call me cocky. Even HB's will tell me i'm cocky. I've also had several HB's tell me they thought i was a senior when they met me (i'm a freshman in college). But ive been working on the standard good BL:

Looking people in the eye
Taking up space comfortably
Acting unaffected by insults or negs
Walking confidently (i think i'm overdoing it there) and looking above the horizon
ETC.

also i've been working on talking like an AMOG and i think i'm getting to my cocky core.......i'm starting to like it tho

What do you guys think, is getting called cocky by and HB a bad thing????????

Not necessarily it just depends on how they say it, if she has that sour look in her face and she sounds serious you've probably got it turned on a little to high. But if she says it in a somewhat joking manner or she's acknowledging your AMOG status and throwing a shit test at you. Either way I would treat it as a test in both accounts but if they're serious just pass the test and tone it down some, throw some more funny than cocky in there.

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generally you'll get resented by 8's and any number down there, nines and 10s will love it if its not completely used to insult their emotions. cocky can be good in some cases but not TOO COCKY. if your tall, handsome, alphamale no need to communicate your cocky. lessen the cocky add more funny.

The HB8 that called me cocky has also called me an asshole and a hottie in the same conversations so, yeah you guys are probably right, its probably a shit test.

thanks for the help, i'll try to crank up my funny

If your gonna be Cocky, you'd better be Funny.

C&F is Yin and Yang. You've got the Yin but you need the Yang to counteract the negative aspects of being cocky (innate arrogance and self-absorbtion).

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Hb always comment me being cocky , but they always add that I m also funny , and how much they love me becuase I m different.



when they say you are cocky :

reply: THANK YOU . YES I M COCKY , THAT IS HOW I am I cant help it.


HB will be impress at your response, because your frame are strong and unshakeble, that is attractive to them.

you are on track, girls want cocky guys! No matter what they say subconciously (misspelled i'm sure) they want it. Now you have to settle it down when your with family and friends, but still confident.

Or my personal favorite

"I'm not cocky!...I'm confident!"

i think your on the right track too just make sure you are also building comfort

I know the walking confidently and standing straight and looking over the horizon while doing these can lead to being called "cocky".

Happens to me a whole lot 'cause of my posture, but I bodybuild and it's my upper back that's making me walk like I'm confident. lol

One thing you need to change is just smile at times or play around. People start to then think of you differently. HBs hate cocky men, but if you're cocky, make sure you know how to use it to your advantage (as in jokes). Just don't over do it 'cause it seems like you are.

No man, the best way to handle a remark like that is to slow play your response. For instance, I was called cocky today by some HB6.5, and I responded," No I am not cocky, I am just convinced." See how that works, go ahead and use. Stop acting like the HB who is giving that remark is the only girl in the room or world, if she can't be around you, just found another girl who can. The last portion isn't directed at you Magic, it's directed at some people who don't no how to handle that compliment.

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What? No, the really HB's love cocky men. Even some of the not so hot ones prefer cocky men.

WOW great point.

Yeah Im cocky but funny at the same time funny.... so they usually give me a compliment on how I am funny.

Never thought about that!

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If you are a good lookin guy dont be so cocky or people are gonna think you are an asshole , also put a lott of funny on your routines and sometimes be affected by other people´s comments but do it playfull like you are hurt, that will help a lot, also learn to calibrate your C&F
good luck

im cocky as fuck... but also funny as fuck aswell i can out alpha 28-30 year olds even tho im 17..

to people who first meet me are surprized because i step out of the box of the steriotypical quiet teenager and it amog most groups im in.
im cheeky and confident but great funn to be with...

so as far as being cocky is concernd as long as u make the hb laugh wear that name with pride u earned it

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