"You have such thin wrists!"
"You're really pale"
"You're so skinny"

How should I respond to these?

My response:
"Yeah, I'm actually descended from an Ethopian tribe, that's why I'm so black too"
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She giggled.

I think it kind my response kind of worked, but negs hit me hard man.

How should I counter-attack her negs?

Thanks, Blue

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Seeder

she's trying to dominate you, so she can whip out the strap-on.

be careful.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Tell her stfu, and she wasnt complaining when she was taking ur dick

But nahhh anything will work, just dominate her ass, and that smart mouth of hers, stop trying to think of tricky off the wall super dhv neg stuff, anything will work as long as you convey it in a dominant confident manner, and u aren't rattled by what she says

Pinch her and bite her neck.

haha! Okay, I'll be more dominant, I don't want to get violated by a strap-on!

But here's another problem I'm having with her:

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It drives me crazy!


Thanks, Blue

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LOL@ I don't want to be violated by a strap on

Thats what this chick I'm talking to did. You just have to establish that YOU'RE the alpha not her! Do this by negging back and NEG HARD! My girl tried that on me for a while, but you know what the first thing I said to her when we met was? "You're not as hot as I expected." Boom. The tables turned. Now I am the prize, and I remind her of that often.

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In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done.

you guys complicate this shit.

men must be "of action".

i learned a technique with my ex.

worked perfectly. (lol at the fact that she's my "ex", but anyway...)

i call it 'grab the clothes'.

bitch insults me, i would just walk to the closet, grab all my clothes on the hangers, and carry them outside to my truck.

she would panic every time, lol.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

seems like a common thing in relationships, especially those with younger peoples like myself, 17.

everytime my ex did that, as long as she did it in a way that was joky, I would just do a freeze out and not respond. not in a serious "oh im not talking to you" way more of a joky freeze out yourself, but a freeze out none the less, within seconds she will be saying "oh im so sorry im so mean" etc. its just foreplay

however if she insults you being serious, you shouldnt need to be told how to react, if she does something that violates your personal boundaries, tell her sternly. if she does it again, you dont need that.

of course its always subjective to your situation, hope thats helped bro i know relationships can be pretty stressful

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees

Another side I haven't seen anyone bring up yet:

Especially with younger/immature girls, this isn't some sort of dominance trip. They are just really insecure about themselves, and are doing it by trying to bring you down a bit. Don't be phased by it. Compliment her a good deal, especially if you realize you haven't been doing that.

Negs are only effective for girls who are confident about themselves.

If, even after complimenting her, and making sure her self-esteem is ok, she's still doing it, then it is definitely the dominance deal.

You could hit the gym, maybe get out in the sun a bit. Just sayin'.

Just say, "Thank you. I'm glad you love me."