Cheerio.

I've posted around here a couple of times and I thought I should at least introduce myself. So hi, my name is Kirin, I am almost twenty and I go to college in Southern California.

Growing up I had my fair share of girls interested in me. Granted I didn't find any of them too physically attractive, but still, it was a nice feeling to know that someone is interested in you. There was a major event that really changed me and that was transferring high schools in the middle of sophomore year. Before, I knew a lot of people and I had friends in every corner of the school. I never tried hard and achieved good grades, I did track and field and life was, in general, good. Looking back, I wouldn't say I was cocky, but more like fearless. I did what I want, I said what I felt like saying.

After I transferred, I knew close to nobody. Even now, I don't think I would consider the small group of friends I made there my "close friends". It also didn't help when my grades started slipping because I transferred into a extremely competitive high school. I started being anti-social, playing computer games would be my high school life. Hell, I didn't even get a prom date. I also doubted myself no matter what I did, in short, I turned into everything that I wasn't before.

Going into college, I thought perhaps it was a new start and I could make something of myself. Unfortunately, that didn't happen, I only made a small group of friends and they were mostly male friends.

So fast forward to today, I'm going to be entering my third year in the fall and I have yet to have my first kiss. I'm not a virgin though, but only because a women on craigslist felt sorry enough for me. I tried dating sites like OKCupid and Plentyoffish but I rarely get a response. A couple months ago, I stumbled upon the PUA community and began reading a lot of the material that people have written.

I began to realize that my problem was basically not meeting enough girls. So I think I might just find more friends who are into partying and clubbing so that I can keep practicing my pua skills. The last party I went to, I number closed and I had my hand between a girl's thighs. I haven't had much success from her after that but at least it's practice!

I'm hoping to keep learning and to keep practicing so that one day meeting and attracting women will be like brushing teeth for me.

you gotta make it a lifestyle kinda like putting on shoes before you leave the house...your not scared to put on your shoes because you already know you can do it if you catch my drift.
just keep on practicing and learn some more material

Hi, I'm also new to the community. Personally I'm not so sure if going out clubbing is the best way to work on your game--it's impossible to talk in most places and people are often too drunk/high anyway. But if you want to grind with people and possibly go home with a random girl then more power to you. I'd like to work on my dancing game and pick up a woman that way too just to say I've done it.