(I have posted this on the Natural section, but I think it's better to post it here... I'll delete it soon.)


Okay guys, this is my first post and topic in the forum. I'll start by introducing myself and telling how I am.
My name is Henrique, I'm 16 years old, and I live in Brazil.
I am an AFC still, though I know good part of the PUA seduction theory... I just don't have friends to help me work out and practice.
I am not a natural but I have something that I oftenly do when I see a girl... I like to say that it could be called a natural feature.
I subtly mantain intense eye contact with a girl when she notices I am staring at her, she looks back, and I don't take my eyes off her until she breaks it, to make sure I am being direct to her. I manage to make her give me tons of IOIs afterwards because she knows I was bold enough to do that.
This actually happened to me many times already before knowing the community. But now I know how to read IOIs and know some basic stuff. And it happened this year again in the new school I went to. She is good looking and I want to kiss her pretty bad.
Doing this might look like it is creepy to some, but I have never experienced it that way because it's so intuitive to do that with a specified girl that she is most likely to correspond with me, it actually happens to be something very sexual.
But I have a problem, I can't manage to talk very well, to express my way of thinking through words. And I still have to train my voice. Maybe because I have never kissed a girl yet... I feel it is ridiculous, since I have this boldness but still I can't manage to have the balls to talk properly or ask a girl decently.
I feel it's much more fluid to make intense eye contact with a female without uttering a word, rather than to talk to her and try to scale up to something more social... I do know how to express myself most of the time, but it's difficult to make you look powerful, bold and decided by talking. I would have to earn value and respect first to do that.

Since she knows I like her, and since I know she would kiss me if I asked her the right way, why don't I manage to get her?
I don't talk to her much... Hence I don't know if I must scale to be her friend socially to actually manage to kiss her. I can't manage to talk to her face to face without her popular, high value friends from the same class around to listen to our talk.
I have her on Facebook, and I thought the only proper way to talk to her would be from there, befriending her by talking about trivial stuff, since I am trying to be more direct, natural, I just don't feel right to try some routine on her, knowing the situation, she won't give in. since she knows my feelings. The only way out of this IMO is actually being direct and ask her to meet up at some corner in the school to snog... but is it? Even though we like each other, it doesn't mean she will kiss me since I don't have social value. And then I begin to consider the first option again.
Well, IMO all of this occurs because of the AA, along with the lack of social value I have since I am somehow quiet.

Now there is this guy who is more social than me, has a stronger bodybuild and also likes her. And she gives him IOIs as well, not that I care that much... I just wanna kiss her and end with my troubles, since she is making me crazy because she is actually the kind of girl that is my ideal type, making my school performance slightly worse. This guy is my friend and I have told him about my feelings for her. He knows how to respect, and I believe he hasn't told about it to anyone... He has strong AA as well and he's trying to approach her but he can't manage, which happens to be somehow relieving. She knows about his feelings since he has sent messages confessing to her by a cellphone, and since I am well aware, I know she sends IOIs to him... And, well, probably the entire class knows about the fact that he wants her... They will probably try to help them get together. Though they don't know about me. Only he and one more guy knows about my feelings.

I am not sure if I do care about her kissing him or not. I just want to get things done to end with this fucking undying desire. She can like anyone she wants of course. But I am somehow egocentric, even if I am acting like a complete fool.

What should I do to get her, guys? I was thinking on going to some forum to finally talk to somebody who knows which social dinamics I should apply, so here I am... Since this is the only decent place to get the info I need.

And im considering going to a teen club with some friends to try to actually erase my AA before trying to get her first... Please, I need help. Give me your suggestions and guidances.

PS:If I posted this subject in the wrong place, please let me know as well.

And... YEAH, I know... She is probably thinking she's so fucking great to have two guys wanting her so bad. She might think she can choose who she wants, when she wants.
But I believe I can actually manage to shut down my feelings if things get too roughed up, and ignore this shitty problem. But it wouldn't be so good, because this leads to frustration.

I can tell you one thing: If you don't take actions, she is gone!
And time is ticking....

Your non-response behaviour will be seen by her as rejections. And no girl wants to be rejected. So if you don't take actions, she will assume you don't want her...

Ask yourself; the AA, is it worth losing her?

Well,
I don't think she will see me as negligent. I look at her everyday the same way I did in the first time: with the desire and intent to show I want her, and she acts responsively... I just don't do it the same intensive way or people will start noticing and commenting about my behaviour, so we exchange glances for short periods of time. (I wonder what would happen if I did that all the time, and it happened to leak out to other people...) Actually, we are managing to trade words now and then, making it a little more friendly, but I can't manage to make this to the point we both want to get.

Indeed, I need to do something! But what?! I wonder what "actions" I should make, considering she is always with high value people around her. I tried to talk to her casually from facebook, but she didn't answer.
I guess I have to work our friendship face-to-face, and probably that means I gotta get to interact with her popular, high value buddies? How the fuck I'll do that, if I don't have value?

i think you are thinking too much .. try being in the moment and don't focus on future fantasy scenarios.

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I am overthinking indeed... I'm definitely getting crazy about this, even though I'm trying to control my thoughts...
I just want to end with this problem... Damn I gotta relax.

maybe you should just try to take some distance from this ... there are many girls on this planet ... there is no such thing as scarity.
the thing you are going through is just a symptom of some psychological / inner game issue.

personally i think you should leave the whole idea of it ... to get a woman you need to get good with woman in general ... trying to pickup this one specific woman is just too much pressure and too many things will very probably go wrong.

decide not to chase her ... decide to not want her ... game other woman...

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yo, your just sexually frustrated man. Trust me, its probably not this girl, its probably your cock. These things just take time and if you push feeling the pressure of never kissing a girl, it will only get worse. The best thing you can do is just be interested in everyone around you, be relaxed and friendly to everyone including girls and you will be able to choose which one you feel as if you want to pursue. Try just chatting to different girls in class, doesn't matter who it is, just get to know everyone. Thats what schools about and girls will follow. its only a matter of time my man.

BB1

Here's the truth about attracting all the pussies you want.

DO NOT PLAY WITH YOUR WINKY ......LOL 4 least 3 months.

This will test your WILL and give you the Energy of a TRUE Alpha MALE.

Go out distract yourself by Skydiving-Mountain Climbing-and so ON.

When you face your FEARS talking to pussies will be second nature.

Get some balls,,dont't listen to JERK OFF's PUA's there just here to take your money.

The reptile part of the brain is program to give you the abilities you need.

My pick line. What would it be like for you to experience a real orgasm. Take a Tampon just in case she doesn't want an orgasm. Give to her and say it must that time of the month. LOL INNERDESERESITEMENTSAPOSHKBAHHOFENAFEFESACANATECUNELLE,

this is so true .. at least to me

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Yeah... After these days, I saw how I was getting too focused in this matter... She has a lot of things that make me attracted, but only if I want to get attracted to her. I just gotta focus on my objetives, and not on some girl who's just there sitting around... you guys are right.
Hey, thanks for the advice guys, REALLY. I definitely needed to listen to other people's opinions about this.
I'm gonna smash these ideas on my head so I won't get fucked up like this for the hundreth time... I'm tired of having to go through this weak mentality. Gotta pull it through. Many thanks, again.

you know your purpose

keep your focus always on yourself .. not on the girl

you do pickup for you...you are making your own life exciting !

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when u do talk to her yoiu gotta tgo into a3 qualify personal7ity not loooks and then roll offand maintain undereactivenesss (if she iois iois followed by iod... if she iois againn ioi.) then just jump into svreening her ppersonality!

Oi tu da bein
This helps you
Watch this, if you have any questions shoot me a line.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0ohkan_wpU

Good luck friend

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