ok so i was dancing on the dance floor and this HB8.5 starts dancing with me and pulling me into her group of friends for literally 30 seconds then moves away. So I continue to dance by myself for another 15 sec when i see this girl eyeing me literally 10ft away and i point for her to come next to me. she started grinding on me and i found out she was in my HS class. I told her i secretly had a crush on her (i really didnt but she bought it) and pulled her aside to a couch and made out with her. We also exchanged #'s and told her i'd talk to her later. She was really wasted that night so i was worried she'd forget bout me.

Anyways next day i texted her that night saying "hey how are you" and got no reply. That was several days ago and i wanna give it one more go before i call it quits. I just wanna make this time count and give it the best chance. Any tips on what i should say?

Why didn't you call instead of text? Don't underestimate the power of having a real conversation with someone.

By texting you're giving this person a choice to reply or not. Practice on phone conversations and give a girl like this a call the next time.

I think this has staled. If you really want to see this girl again, try giving her a call, but don't expect this to work since it'll seem like a desperate attempt after texting her already.

Good luck and let us know how it went!

thx. I called and got the vmail. Decided to send a txt few min after and basically said my friend bailed for plans on thursday so i have the day free and i know this cool park with good scenery we could go to and catch up.

If i dont get a reply then it's whatever, but damn this chick was the best kisser haha so I figure it was worth another shot.

ok its the next day and no reply or anything so this 1's a flake. Thanks for the input though

ok new twist on the story. So last night im out and she calls me at 1230 i was in a club so i didnt see my phone ring. Anyways i txted her (i was pretty drunk at the time) heres how it went down:

she called and didnt leave a vmail sent her a txt shortly after
me: hey whats up?
Her: Hey i just wanted to know what ur vp to
Her: I mean up to. Whats up bobby
me: Im in xxxxx (city i was in which is the party place for bars/clubs) y havent u called me back? u only call me when ur drunk? lol not cool...
her: how did you know im drunk
me: cause u only txt me when im drunk (typo i failed to correct lol) not cool.... if ur like that ur not worth my time...
her: well i was into someone else but thats over now
me: txt me when ur sober if u wanna hang out cause im not like other guys.... i dont do that. prove it by calling me when ur sober (was occupied and drunk when i sent this. Obv she prolly knew i was drunk too so i dont know.)


I called her later and left a voicemail saying I was interested in talking and meeting up but only if she'd call me back if she was sober.

today comes around havent heard from her since. Prolly gonna call and joke around about our drunkeness. Most likely wont pick up so ill just send a quick text or leave a voicemail.

When a girl calls you or text you late at night , "what are you up to" She is basically saying, lets hang out so we can fuck. If she called, is a booty call for sure.

Basically what you start reacting and blew your booty call. Next time, if a girl is down to fuck, there is no need to game her. Just go with it.

Next time, just text back or reply with "I was just gonna hit you up and see if you wanted to hang out, but you beat me me to it " From there, work out the logistics and your getting laid.